On the first day of the first month, go to relatives
In the tradition of our country, the Chinese New Year is a festival of reunion, not only to reunite with one's own family, but also to visit each other's relatives who have not seen each other for a year, talk, contact and contact feelings.
But with the development of the times, relatives have changed their substance, not only becoming intimate, but also bringing us a lot of troubles, many young people, more and more dislike to go to relatives.
In this context, many people suggest canceling the visit to relatives, and wouldn't it be better to live with your own family. I don't know if you agree?
Why don't you want to go to your relatives? What good is it to not leave relatives? The main points are as follows.
As the saying goes, "If you are poor, don't go to your relatives", why do you say that? If you have money and a car, others will respect you if you go to your relatives, and if you don't have money at home, your relatives will feel that they can't count on it in the future, and they will dislike your family and even be unwilling to associate with you.
Everyone has been working outside for a year, and the most important thing to accompany after returning home is actually their own family, not their own relatives, to put it bluntly, a string of relatives is not only to find trouble for themselves, but also to find trouble for relatives, others want to entertain you, there must be a toss.
Relatives have to be busy with this big table of dishes, and as guests, they are embarrassed to eat too much, and in the end there will be a lot of leftovers left, so that the face of the host family will be bright, but leaving a lot of leftovers, it is also a lot of trouble to leave for the lord's family.
Nowadays, people have a very heavy heart of comparison, and when they go to relatives, they will compare with each other who gets the courtesy, which completely changes the essence of relatives.
Especially when the second year of junior high school goes to their parents' house, some people will even take more than a dozen boxes of gifts for comparison, looking at a lot, but if you look closely, they are actually some very cheap bread, biscuits, shaqima, eight-treasure porridge and the like, looking at a lot of things, in fact, they are all worthless.
I was walking with relatives when I was thereSome relatives don't know where to buy a necklace of dozens of yuan, to the old man said that it cost more than a thousand, the old man is very happy, relatives face is also very face-saving, until I saw the label on the ground to know, this necklace is only 62 yuan, but the old man does not understand anything, but also thinks it is very expensive, praise relatives will honor the elderly.
Looking at the happy smile of the old man, I have mixed feelings in my heart, and I can't help but admire! How did the originally sincere feelings become like this now?
When you go to go to relatives, you must be indispensable to the gossip of relatives, which is also an important reason why many young people are most disgusted with relatives. When you have a job after graduation, you should ask what job you are looking for, what you do, and how much it costs a month.
If your job is not very good and you don't make much money, you will lose face; If you earn a lot, although your relatives are praising you, they are actually full of jealousy.
Young people now,Many relatives go through the motions, that is, buy something or take the gifts of other relatives to their homes, and then sit there and say a few words and leave directly, and they must not want to stay in their relatives' homes for a long time.
Because today's children grow up fast, they don't know what to shout when they disappear for a long time, and they are full of embarrassment when they see it.
Now,With the increasing number of single-child families, it is very likely that the cancellation of relatives in the future is a thing, because there is only one child in the family, and there are no relatives to go away from except for their own parents.
For some relatives who are closer, such as Dad's sister and sister. Mom's sisters, sisters, or brothers and brothers, and some relatives who have a better relationship and are closer, I don't think there is any need to leave other relatives at all, and it doesn't make much sense to go, and if you don't get it, you'll be angry.
Because young people are under a lot of pressure nowadays, it is not easy to go home for the New Year, there is not much time to accompany their parents, and it is really not appropriate for relatives to waste time, so it is better to spend a little more time with their parents?
Therefore, it is not an impossible thing to cancel the development of the times when relatives are born, but something that will be realized in a few years, which is also the trend of social development.
Finally, do you think you should cancel the visit to relatives?