Revealing the long term ambiguous relationship may hide a crisis!

Mondo Psychological Updated on 2024-02-26

Have you ever been in a situation where your relationship is ambiguous? You have a good chat with a friend of the opposite sex, but you are not sure what he or she really meant. Today, I'm going to share with you a story about ambiguity. The protagonist of the story is called Li Ting, 28 years old this year, and is an ordinary office worker. She works for her family advertising agency and is busy with various client matters every day. Her family background is simple, her parents are working-class, and she has a younger brother who is in college.

Li Tingzhi feels that she is an independent person, but she always feels lost in terms of feelings. She has been in love several times, but none of them made it to the end. Maybe it's because she can't figure out the other party's mind. Last year, she met a boy named Zhang Qiang. They met at a friend's party, and Li Ting felt that he was very special and gave people a very comfortable feeling. They exchanged *** with each other and started chatting frequently.

Zhang Qiang is a very interesting person, they often get up to watch movies, eat, and go shopping. Sometimes I also cook and play games. Li Ting found that she liked to be with him more and more, but she always felt that their relationship was a little ambiguous. Every time she asked about their relationship, Zhang Qiang always said, "Take your time, don't rush." Such words made Li Ting feel very uneasy. She begins to wonder if he is playing with her feelings, but feels that he is not that kind of person.

As the days passed, their relationship still did not progress. Li Ting began to feel tired and anxious, not knowing what to do. Sometimes she deliberately distances herself from him to see how he reacts, but he doesn't seem to care. One night, Li Ting and Zhang Qiang got up and went to watch a movie. After the movie, they were walking on the side of the road, and suddenly Zhang Qiang stopped, looked into Li Ting's eyes and said, "Actually, I like you very much." Hearing this, Li Ting was stunned. She thought she would cry or be ecstatic, but in reality she just felt relieved. She asked him, "Then why didn't you say it earlier?" He replied, "I'm afraid you won't accept me." At that moment, Li Ting felt as if she had been waiting for a long, long time.

From that day on, there was a noticeable progress in their relationship. They began to get closer to each other and got to know each other better. Li Ting found that Zhang Qiang was a very attentive and considerate person, always giving her warmth and comfort when she needed it. They have had a lot of good times, but they also have faced some difficulties and challenges. Time flies, and in the blink of an eye they are already in the beginning of the year. During this year, they have experienced a lot of things, there are laughter and tears. Sometimes they quarrel and have conflicts, but they never really separate. Looking back now, Li Ting feels that that time was really not easy.

Ambiguity makes people feel wronged, and they don't know what role they play. But now it seems that it was all worth it. Because it was that experience that made them cherish each other more and walk more firmly. If you've been through an ambiguous phase, then I'm sure you can understand my feelings. That feeling of uncertainty is really tormenting, but at the same time it makes us more mature and stronger. So don't be afraid of an ambiguous relationship and face it bravely! Finally, I wish all lovers a family eventually!

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