As a leading representative of Chinese TV in the entertainment industry, it is inevitable that a batch of top hosts with distinctive personalities will emerge, and Le Jia is one of them.
With superb eloquence, Le Jia has successfully grown from an unknown small sales staff to a top host, able to compete with Sa Beining, Wang Han, He Jiong, etc.
However, with the passage of time, the once top host who was in the limelight gradually fell into a situation where no one cared about him because of repeated gaffes.
Lejia can be called "eloquence determines success or failure", and his sharp and unique phrasing has attracted a large number of fans.
However, he allowed his sharp talent to evolve into "impulsive words", which also led him to a path of no return.
Jiangsu Satellite TV saw the great success of Hunan Satellite TV's marriage variety show "Let's Date" in 2010, and then they followed suit and launched their own marriage variety show "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb".
At the beginning of "Do Not Disturb", the program team invited Meng Fei and Huang Han to serve as hosts.
Meng Fei and Huang Han, the gentle and elegant "red faces", have become a pair, and the next step is to find a articulate "white face" to confront them.
Subsequently, the program production team turned to Lejia, who was known as "the first lecturer in the world" at that time, and they believed that Lejia's style was very suitable for the stage of "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb".
It wasn't until the program team really found Le Jia that they realized that the "Big Buddha" Le Jia didn't seem to be so easy to invite, and he refused their invitations several times in a row.
The program team is not an easy existence to deal with, after many entanglements and persuasions, Le Jia finally couldn't refuse this opportunity and joined the hosting team of "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb".
Le Jia became the "third axe" of "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb", and together with Meng Fei and Huang Han, he formed the "Three Musketeers". In this way, he joined the program team as he wished.
Le Jia lived up to the expectations of the program team and gave full play to his sharp style.
The high degree of success of the "bald combination" of Le Jia and Meng Fei can be seen in the fact that people have said that "their war of words is more interesting than watching the guests fall in love".
Because the two get along all day, they gradually establish a relationship that is closer than that of brothers.
Le Jia even jokingly said to Meng Fei: "Brother, if I pass away first, you have to preside over my funeral." ”
In order to meet his brother's expectations, Meng Fei agreed without hesitation and prepared to arrange a funeral for Le Jia after his death.
However, due to the different styles of the two, Le Jia and Meng Fei will inevitably have some contradictions in the show, after all, there is no banquet that will never be dispersed.
The two were supposed to be like brothers, without any overnight hatred, but the problem was that the conflicts at work were brought into life.
As the saying goes: "In the eyes of the lover, out of the eyes of the enemy, out of the villain". As Meng Fei became more and more unable to tolerate Le Jia's "strong words", Le Jia's previous "sharp words" style was also regarded by Meng Fei as unspeakable.
Meng Fei finally couldn't bear it anymore, and in anger, he took the lead in posting a post criticizing Le Jia on social platforms.
Although Lejia did not respond on social platforms, it was later reported that the two had a big fight in the studio.
Le Jia had been successfully carried away at that time, so he didn't want to apologize to Meng Fei, but quit "If You Are Honest, Do Not Disturb" under the pretext of "damaged vocal cords".
Judging from what happened later, it can be concluded that the "vocal cord damage" claimed by Lejia is purely false.
Soon after Le Jia left Jiangsu Satellite TV, he joined Anhui Satellite TV's reality show "Super Speaker" as a mentor.
Just when the audience was still doubting whether Le Jia's "damaged vocal cords" was real, Le Jia revealed a bigger "secret".
On one episode of "Super Speaker", when Lejia applauded his students, this aroused Jin Xing's dissatisfaction.
Jin Xing commented: "Your performance is excellent, but your speech is really terrible, especially Lejia has been clapping from the sidelines, it feels too contrived. ”
Le Jia was instantly enraged, but he did not accuse Jin Xing on the spot, but tactfully hinted that Jin Xing was a "little eunuch", which was also unpleasant.
Venus then responds to Lejia immediately, and she calls Lejia a "dead bald", and then leaves the scene angrily.
However, the matter is not over yet, and Le Jia once again caused serious problems due to careless words during the following performance.
In this program, after listening to the speech of the disabled students, Lejia was deeply moved.
In order to motivate the students, Le Jia immediately took out a bottle of liquor and said that he wanted to toast with them.
No one thought that after drinking a few glasses of wine, Le Jia would play a drunken mania on the stage of the show.
He began to criticize the program production team and other mentors, and launched a full-fire criticism.
The top management of the TV station was already angry because of the seriousness of the situation, and then the major TV stations boycotted Lejia, causing him to disappear from the screen.
After Le Jia "fell to the bottom", the audience re-examined his various opinions and began to question whether he was still suitable for the role of "emotional mentor".
Lejia's reputation plummeted, and viewers began to question his once-revered status as an "emotional mentor."
Before Lejia became famous, he started a relationship with a "white rich beauty", and this lady's father was a wealthy businessman.
Her father didn't think much of Lejia from the beginning, thinking that she was just an opportunistic person.
However, Lejia had already developed the situation to the point of "raw rice cooked into mature rice", and the girl's father had no choice but to agree to the marriage of the two.
After getting married, Le Jia began to suffer from inferiority complex, and he felt that he had no say in this relationship and could not take the initiative.
Subsequently, he decided to lead by example and filed for divorce from his wife.
After the divorce, Lejia realized a truth: only by making yourself stronger can you win the respect of others.
In order to stand out, he began to work hard and set out to create his own "chromatology of character". While studying psychology, he met a like-minded woman.
The two worked together, day after day, and developed a special affection for each other, and eventually Lejia got married again.
However, the good times did not last. Le Jia's "sharpness" became the "last straw" that overwhelmed the woman after the two got married.
Their married life is full of contradictions, with daily arguments. The woman couldn't bear it anymore and finally filed for divorce from Le Jia.
After the divorce, Lejia was silent for a while and put his mind on work.
After "If You Are the Truth, Do Not Disturb" became popular, Le Jia ushered in another marriage.
In 2011, Lejia married Tao Hong, a high-achieving Harvard student.
Unexpectedly, after having a daughter together, the two chose to divorce in 2014.
Until 2022, Lejia has been taking care of her daughter's food and clothing independently, even though they are divorced.
In 2022, Le Jia announced the death of his ex-wife on the short ** platform, and since then, the two have been separated forever.
It is precisely because of the failure of these three marriages that the audience has doubts about Le Jia's identity as an "emotional mentor".
However, after making a few unique points, Lejia dismissed such remarks and he has moved on to a new life.
After losing his job at the television station, Lejia briefly tried to return to the position of lecturer he once held.
However, he can't stand his current life anymore, and even posted on social **: "I didn't bother to go to the speech of less than 10,000 people before, but now I will attend as long as there are 3,000 people." ”
Lejia is obviously not satisfied with his current life and work, and then it was revealed that he is living a different life abroad.
Recently, a netizen traveling in the United States photographed Lejia's latest **.
Lejia was carrying the goods in the shopping cart into his car, and some netizens even pointed out that the mineral water he bought** was very expensive.
Even though Le Jia has long since fallen in his circle, like an emaciated camel bigger than a horse, his life is still much better than that of most ordinary people.
Lejia's current life is like trying to get as much wealth as possible, but in the end, he will end up in trouble because his expenses exceed his income.
In contrast, Meng Fei, a former partner, not only maintained his vitality while engaging in work, but also actively registered a new company and started his own business operation.
Meng Fei's life is no longer dictated by work, and even if he retires now, he won't worry about money.
Colajia's performance in this regard has not reached the ideal of Meng Fei, as we all know, "it is better to teach people to fish than to teach them to fish".
Lejia's current life has gradually fallen into a state of "spending more than income", and maybe one day Lejia will be penniless.
May that day never come, Le Jia's life has now been opened up by his old partner Meng Fei.
The mouth quickly made Lejia achieve a career, but he also lost some things because of it.
He has a keen mind and understands that the audience comes to see him because of his straightforwardness and honesty, but he also lacks the intelligence to discern the line between bluntness and gaffes.
With his talents, Lejia has undoubtedly brought countless happy moments to the audience.
Whether Lejia will now regret his "bluntness" is unknown.
We must keep in mind the lessons of the previous car, take this as a guide for the future car, and act carefully to avoid speaking wild words like Lejia, which will eventually lead to self-imprisonment.
I hope that Le Jia's life can be happy, and I also hope that he can find a chance to make a comeback and continue to bring wonderful programs to the audience.
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