Soft-heartedness is a kind of disease, kindness must have a sharp edge, and don't bear the cause and effect of others.
The netizen is a **, who is on duty at night to receive patients, and one person comes over and wants to live in a single room, because someone has already made an appointment for a single room the next day, but the patient said that he will go to a double room for one night and want to live more comfortably. Netizens kindly let her stay in a single room for one night, and the next morning helped contact the double room in the high-quality ward, and the patient and his family did not have any opinions at that time. At noon, the patient's family posted on social platforms: saying that the hospital rushed patients in the middle of the night and did not allow her to be hospitalized. At that time, netizens were angry.
There is a cleaning lady in our company's office building, looking at the work is very hard, I usually take the initiative to greet her when we meet, and sometimes take a bottle of mineral water to her to quench her thirst. For a period of time, I had something at home, and I communicated with the company's leaders and colleagues, and I didn't go to work in the morning and went over in the afternoon. In the afternoon, I met the cleaning aunt, and often asked, why did you come so late, and said loudly that you are the best, you can not go to work in the morning. I wondered, do I have a yarn work with you?
In fact, the lower she is, the more she thinks about it, and her thoughts and cognition are also at the bottom, and her cognition can't be distinguished. You talk to her well, she thinks you are good at talking, and her thinking and concept of interpersonal relationships are only strong and weak, not good or bad. Don't be polite to this kind of person, her underlying instinctive reaction is to only recognize the law of jungle survival, and her life and life will always match.
I remember my boss telling me that I should not be too humble and flattering to people who are in a bad situation and financially disadvantaged, and keep a certain distance, because they will vent all the discrimination that others have against her. Because she is surrounded by people who look down on her, she will find another outlet to vent her anger.