In 1959, a guard next to him was "obsessed" with actresses, but unfortunately he was dumped and fell into the pain of falling out of love. The guard's next relationship was also soaked in the soup under ***'s "interrogation".
Who is this guard? What kind of emotional experience did he have? Why?
This guard's name is Feng Yaosong, he came to *** as a guard in 1954, he was only 18 years old at the time, and ** cared about him like a child.
In 1959, Feng Yaosong, who was in his 20s, met an actress at a dance in Zhongnanhai, and he was attracted by the beauty and agility of the actress, and soon began a passionate pursuit.
The actress didn't have much interest in Feng Yaosong, but the identity of "** guard" was very exciting, and after a few thoughts, the actress agreed to Feng Yaosong's pursuit.
But after falling in love, the actress found that the reality was different from what she imagined, Feng Yaosong did not enjoy any special treatment, his salary was only thirty or forty yuan, it was very boring to be with him, and he couldn't get any light, so not long after talking, the actress proposed to break up.
Feng Yaosong didn't know that there was a problem, he was in a state of love, and he suddenly fell out of love, and his mood was very low. **Seeing that Feng Yaosong was not in a good state, he learned about his situation.
After that, ** said half-comfortingly and half-rationally: "It's okay to divide it, the actor spends a lot and has a high vision, your salary can't support her, even if the negotiation is completed, it will be difficult to last long, it's better to be practical." ”
**After several marriages and more mature opinions, he said to Feng Yaosong: "The wife is not used as an ornament, the important thing to find a daughter-in-law is to look at the personality and character, appearance is secondary, and it is best for the couple to make progress together." Think about it, if your wife is gentle and virtuous, you are in a good mood at home, and you have the motivation to go out to do things. Otherwise, you'll be in the mood to work. ”
Subsequently, ** pointed out sharply: "When talking about such a thing, you'd better not borrow my name, otherwise you won't find a wife who treats you sincerely." ”
After hearing this, Feng Yaosong said ashamedly: "Chairman, what you said is true. ”
Seeing this, ** humorously teased him: "You are also a very energetic guy, and you are still worried that you can't find a wife?" Keep your eyes peeled and find one that makes you feel comfortable. ”
However, Feng Yaosong seems to have a soft spot for "actresses".
Soon after, ** went to Hefei, Anhui Province to inspect, and the local provincial party committee specially organized a ball, and Feng Yaosong was fascinated by an actress in the troupe.
**After hearing about it, I felt that it was necessary to check the young man, after all, they had not been in Hefei for a few days, and Feng Yaosong was a little too "fast".
After work, ** talked to Feng Yaosong about this girl, he said: "How is this girl? Do you know about her situation? ”
Feng Yaosong was silent, ** had a bottom in his heart, and he said earnestly: "Xiao Feng, the person you talk about can't be all impulsive, you still have to know each other better." ”
**It's not that there is a prejudice against actresses, the focus is still on character.
Soon, Zeng Xisheng, secretary of the provincial party committee, brought his wife to visit the chairman of *** and kept Feng Yaosong in mind, and he asked Zeng Xisheng: "Xiao Feng next to me is also old enough to find a daughter-in-law, he met an actress at the previous dance, and he has a good impression of this girl, what do you think of her?" ”
The couple looked at each other, neither of them knew the girl. ** smiled and said: "Then you can help inquire, after all, it is our Xiaofeng's lifelong event." ”
Zeng Xisheng immediately responded: "Okay, this matter will be left to us." ”
Soon, Zeng Xisheng replied. That night, he came to *** again and said with some embarrassment: "This girl may not be suitable, she is three years older than Xiao Feng." ”
Hearing this, ** said: "It's not a big problem, it's not much bigger, isn't there a saying called 'female junior, hug the gold brick'." ”
Zeng Xisheng said: "After you listen to me, the point is that she has been divorced and has a child, I'm afraid it will ......."”
This is indeed difficult for many people to accept, ** mainly respecting Feng Yaosong's opinion, he asked: "Xiao Feng, with a child, do you think it's okay?" Are you still willing to deal with her? ”
Feng Yaosong finally shook his head, but fortunately, the relationship between the two has not yet been determined, so it is not a breakup.
After all, Feng Yaosong is young, and he is more impulsive towards his feelings, and he is not thoughtful enough. After Zeng Xisheng and his wife left, ** educated Feng Yaosong: "There is still a protracted battle to find a partner, and you can't always think about quick success." ”
Seeing that Feng Yaosong's relationship experienced setbacks again and again, ** felt uncomfortable, so he took the initiative to match him. Under the matchmaking of ***, Feng Yaosong finally married his daughter-in-law in 1961.
**Able to take the initiative to care for his own security guards, and make sincere suggestions, he really treats the staff around him as relatives, so he has been truly loved by them.