Frankly, once a person's heart is cold, the most direct manifestation is that they no longer speak.
A lot of things in life tell us this, and that is that when a person's heart is cold, it changes. It's no longer going to be as enthusiastic as it used to be.
The words to each other have also become very simple and cold. Indeed, there used to be many relationships, and if the heart is cold, there will rarely be a tirade about each other anymore.
Because no matter how much the other party says, he doesn't care much anymore.
It is true that once a person's heart is cold, he becomes more and more silent. After all, not all people in this world have a bunch of things to say.
The encounter was originally a fate. Don't take all the good for granted. Because there is no love without a reason in this world, and there is no good without a reason.
Once a person's dedication is ignored for a long time, all enthusiasm will be withdrawn. Yes, it's like being in a relationship, when a person wants to leave, the most direct manifestation is that he starts to become more and more silent.
As I once read the saying, "We think that poverty is hunger, lack of clothing, and lack of housing; But the greatest poverty is not needed, unloved and uncared for. ”
Indeed, the human heart is not "cold" all at once, but because of those small disappointments again and again, which leads to the final complete coldness.
To put it simply, the reason why people are cold is that their efforts are not cherished, their kindness is used, and their true feelings are deceived. My own sincerity is being played with.
It's like a friend who told me about what happened to me. He liked someone a long time ago, and at that time he took the initiative to pursue him.
In today's words, it's "licking the dog", but not long after being together, the other party feels annoyed, either feeling that he is always pestering himself, or he feels that he doesn't care about himself.
It also made him feel like he didn't know what to do. It seems that what he does in front of the other party is not right. Slowly, he became silent.
Later, he simply stopped caring because his heart was cold. It seems that everything he does is wrong, and in the end, he slowly feels that the effort is not worth it. In the end, the relationship also parted ways.
Indeed, many times the relationship between people is mutual, you pay for me, I pay for you, and no one's contribution is completely unreciprocated.
More often than not, the effort also needs to be reciprocated. Once the long-term effort is not cherished, then the final outcome of the two people is nothing to say.
Naturally, they will no longer pay attention to each other's words and deeds, and they will not invest too much emotion in each other's lives. It's true that we're not afraid to give.
It's just that we are all afraid that our efforts are useless and there is no hope. After all, things that don't see the future are meaningless and the saddest for all of us.
And this is true both emotionally and affectionately, if you don't cherish what you give, then the final result is that you no longer interact with each other.
After all, it is possible to see people's hearts over time. It is useless for any relationship to develop for a long time, and it is useless to rely on oneself.
It's like two people living a life, you are trying to save money, and he is squandering lavishly, so no matter how much you pay, it is useless.
It is precisely because of this that we need to understand that on the road of life, we need to know how to cherish a relationship and understand each other's contributions.
Especially don't always feel that the little things around you are irrelevant, the smaller the things, the more we should pay attention, because the little things add up.
Small problems will eventually become big problems if they are not solved. Therefore, no matter who you meet, you must cherish it, and don't end up in the relationship with each other becoming "wrong payment".
You must know that when all the efforts cannot be exchanged for understanding, repeated concessions, and understanding, the final result can only be disappointment and coldness.
And the relationship between people, once the heart is cold, the most direct manifestation is silence, and there is no longer the previous care. So, don't wait until you lose it and regret it, it's too late.
Text|Ming Fusheng.
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