Everyone's life will experience its own ups and downs, which cannot be avoided.
But losers, in the face of twists and turns, will always stumble over various reasons.
Those who succeed have various ways to solve problems and are reborn again and again.
The difference between this is the word wisdom, and people with great wisdom will use the following methods to face various difficulties in life.
I read such a sentence in the book:
"Life is a long curve, there are peaks and valleys, in the peak you will be high-spirited, but only in the valley can you see and know the real self. ”If a person falls into a trough, if you regard it as misfortune, then everything you see will be colored by misfortune, and from then on, your world will be gray.
But if you take this as a gift of fate, then you have the right to choose in the trough, you can discover more new yourself, and your world will be more open and colorful than the original.
When the writer Shi Tiesheng was young, his legs could no longer walk, which was a devastating blow to a young man, and it can be said that he fell into a trough without a trace of light.
From his irritability at the beginning, to his inner peace later, he gained a lot of experience.
Because he understands a truth, that is, everyone will face the problems of illness, accidents, and death, but he just faces them in advance.
Since misfortune has come and there is no way to change it, it is better to calm down and discover a new self.
Later, Shi Tiesheng began to devote himself to writing, and his observations of the world, as well as his thoughts and thoughts, were all in the form of words, to establish a connection with the outside world.
His masterpiece of prose "Me and the Altar of Earth", ** wounded hearts one after another, let people see the hope of life again.
The trough period is an abyss for ordinary people, but for wise people, it is the starting point of another peak.
As long as the mind is calm, you will be able to see the trough, which is actually a greater opportunity.
Hemingway said
"Life always hurts us, but when you get there, you will find that those hurts are what make me better. ”It is not terrible for a person to fall into a predicament, as long as you keep your mind calm in the predicament, do not lose yourself, and do not degenerate yourself, then every day you move forward, you are changing the predicament. Because things must be reversed, and after something is bad to a certain extent, it will definitely get better.
As long as the mind is settled, then there will be no new problems, and everything will slowly get better.
Everyone has their own system of judging things, and you can't dictate what others think.
When misunderstood, the wise man never spends too much time explaining it.
Because time will dilute everything, what kind of person you are and what kind of things you will do, everyone is not clear in a short time, but it will be seen in the hearts of the people over time.
You just need to do good deeds without asking about the future, and you can rest easy.
People who are truly wise will not pursue life without the slightest twist and turn, because it is impossible, they will only pray for themselves to have a peaceful mind to face the different problems of life.
In the face of the ups and downs of turbulent life, they will let themselves do it: keep their minds calm in the troughs, be calm in difficult situations, and stay at ease when they are misunderstood, only in this way can they easily cope with all kinds of changes.
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