8 years ago, in Bangkok, Thailand, a special transnational wedding was held.
A 32-year-old wealthy businessman in Beijing, ChinaBao Xi, married Thailand's "most beautiful ladyboy" ——Nissa, Bao Xi fell in love with the "woman" in front of her, and gave up everything in China and settled in Thailand with his wife.
even spent 5 million to buy a villa for Nissa in Bangkokstarted a sweet life for two.
Marrying a shemale means that you can't have children, which is contrary to tradition.
So now that 8 years have passed since the two got married, Bao Xi and Nissa have neither a certificate nor a child, does Bao Xi regret it? What about the current state of their relationship?
Falling in love and marrying a transgender person may be common in Thailand, but it can be a bolt from the blue for Bao Xi's traditional Chinese parents and friends.
But Nissa chose to embark on the path of "shemale", which was also a last resort.
Born in Thailand in 1992 to a destitute family, Nissa was the second in line and was forced to take on the burden of caring for his younger siblings from an early age.
When she was in middle school, Nissa's father died of regret because he couldn't bear the long-term hard work.
Almost overnight, Nissa's family lost their only income** and was reeling in the storm.
Nissa has been fond of dolls and other things that girls prefer since she was a child, which gives her family hope.
You know, in Thailand, becoming a "ladyboy" is one more lucrative thing.
Nissa is willing to risk her life in order to keep this family from falling apart. It's just that the transformation is not an easy task, and the huge expenses alone keep her out.
She was not discouraged, since she had decided to take this path, she must fight to the end.
The family gave Nissa support, first buying a large amount of estrogen, which gradually gave Nisha's appearance a softened beauty.
But to be a real girl, that's just the beginning.
In order to have sex reassignment surgery, Nissa will work hard to make money whenever she has free time.
Finally, in 2014, she saved enough money to have breast augmentation surgery and sex reassignment surgery.
But the damage to the body from such surgery is almost irreversible** Almost torn, Nissa would be in excruciating pain every day during the time she had just undergone surgery, and she couldn't even sleep.
Fortunately, Nissa's own conditions are not bad, and after surviving this most painful time, she went to participate in the Miss Universe competition, and she worked hardShe managed to win the Oiran and earned a huge prize money.
On that day, Nisha, who won the championship, stood on the stage with tears in her eyes, enjoying the flowers and praise prepared for her alone, and became a well-deserved queen of the spotlight.
She wouldn't have imagined that her true destiny was in the audience, looking at Nissa affectionately, and he couldn't help himself with just one glance.
The two are in love
Bao Xi was born in Beijing in 1983, and his family was not very wealthy, so he dropped out of school at a very young age and has been working hard labor to support himself.
In 1987, after the implementation of reform and opening up, Bao Xi conformed to the trend of the times and responded to national policies, and also began to go to the sea.
With the money accumulated over the years as start-up capital, he started a ** company.
This company specializes in working with Southeast AsiaWe resell low-cost items imported from Southeast Asia to China.
After years of hard work, Bao Xi slowly became rich and became famous.
Seeing that the company's prospects are getting better and better, just when Bao Xi felt that he could breathe a sigh of relief, his girlfriend who had been dating for many years actually proposed to break up with him.
Bao Xi loves his girlfriend very much, and he keeps him several times, but the other party is resolute and unwilling to live with him anymore.
The departure of his beloved caused Bao Xi to suffer a huge blow, and he was immersed in sad emotions every day and could not extricate himself from it, and it was difficult to heal himself.
In order to get out of the emotional wound as soon as possible, Bao Xi made up his mind to go to Southeast Asia to relax and relax.
The first stop is Bangkok, ThailandIn addition to the happy mood, on the other hand, Bao Xi also wants to visit the local handicraft market in Thailand and see the prospects for development in China.
When he arrived, Thailand was hosting the "Miss Tiffany & Co. Contest".This made him feel novel, and with the idea of ** truth, he decided to join in the "fun" immediately!
The competition was fierce, and everyone competed for beauty and showed their talents.
But Bao Xi yawned again and again, so to speakMost of the glamorous "women" on the stage did not arouse his interest, and just when he was bored, a beautiful figure deeply attracted his attention.
Nissa, dressed in a golden gown, slowly walked to the front of the stage, smiling and smiling, and her face was radiant.
Since she appeared, Bao Xi's eyes have been following her and have not looked away for a moment.
After Nissa won the championship, her eyes were full of tears, and she sincerely thanked everyone who supported her, bowed and gave a speech, Bao Xi looked at her from the audience, and couldn't help but be moved, moved by this girl's sincerity.
After the game, the host said according to the process: "Everyone can take pictures with their favorite players." ”
Bao Xi couldn't help but be excited, like a fanatical fan chasing an idol, he rushed forward, crowded in front of people, and smiled brightly when he took pictures with Nissa.
He took advantage of the opportunity to talk to Nissa, who had a good personality and the two had a good conversation.
So Bao Xi further proposed to have dinner together tomorrow, and Nissa had a good impression of the man in front of her and readily agreed.
At this time, neither of them thought that they would have a lot of bonds with each other in the future.
Work together to weather the storm
After all, she was a girl with a good impression, Bao Xi chose several clothes, tried them for several hours, and permed her head before going to the banquet.
He booked a high-end restaurant in Thailand, and when Nissa came, she was very impressed when she saw Bao Xi dressed appropriately.
Bao Xi originally planned to stay in Southeast Asia for about ten days, he was not familiar with the place in Thailand, and asked Nissa to be his tour guide to understand and enjoy the culture and scenery of Thailand, and Nissa agreed.
After further contact, Nissa was impressed by Bao Xi's gentlemen and gentle behavior, and she felt that Bao Xi was a very generous and responsible man.
Bao Xi also gradually learned about Nisha's inhuman experiences in the past, and he felt sorry for the "girl" in front of him.
When they were about to separate, Bao Xi finally couldn't hold back the surging love in his heart, and he had the courage to confess to Nissa, but this scared Nisha.
Nissa was still rational, and she said to Bao Xi"Do you really know who I am? I'm a shapeshifter. Is it really acceptable for you for a man to serve another man through metamorphosis? ”
On the one hand,There are many men around Nissa, but most of them are just coveting her beauty, and there is not much sincerity at all.
On the other hand,Nissa also has a lot of transgender friends who have been cheated out of sex and money, and the cruelty of reality makes her hesitate and fear, and she never even expects someone to fall in love with her.
That's something you can't even think of!
Nissa thought that these words were enough to make Bao Xi retreat, but Bao Xi did not give up, instead, he still looked directly into Nisha's eyes seriously, and there was not even a trace of dodge in his pupils.
He told Nissa firmly, "You are like a goddess in my heart, and you are beautiful in every way. It's okay if you don't accept me now, but I'll tell you with practical actions that I'm definitely not joking. ”
Nissa didn't take those words to heart.
Bao Xi, who returned to Beijing, couldn't hide the thoughts of her in her heart, and often sent her text messages to express her concern.
Whenever Nissa was in pain, sad or confused, Bao Xi would always chat with her and never give up.
After almost half a year of such companionship, Nissa participated in the Thailand International Queen Competition, and Bao Xi specially freed up and flew to Thailand to accompany her to compete. Nissa was very touched by this.
After the competition, Nissa was invited to the restaurant prepared by Bao Xi to eat, as soon as she entered the door, the fragrance of roses in the sky came to her face, the roses all over the ground carved into a heart, and the violin was wafting everywhere in the restaurant with the tune of deep love.
At this time, the protagonist Bao Xi finally paced from the outside and knelt down on one knee in front of Nissa.
"Beautiful Nissa, will you be my wife? ”
Nissa put her hands over her mouth and nodded with tears of excitement.
Bao Xi was as happy as a child, looked at each other and smiled, and the two finally became married.
But it's not just each other that's in the way.
Bao Xi knew that his relatives and friends, especially traditional parents, must have a hard time accepting this.
So he first told his parents that he had a girlfriend, but he didn't tell them who Nissa really was.
The eldest son's son is finally getting married, and the second elder is very happy, happily packing up, waiting for the future daughter-in-law to come to the door.
When Nissa arrived in Beijing, Bao Xi's family warmly welcomed her.
Although the second elder was a little dissatisfied with Nissa being a foreigner, he was very generous in her speech and conversation, and she actively cleaned up the house, which was very virtuous, and the two old men were quite satisfied.
But then the son's words made the two of them black, they never thought that their son brought back a transsexual!
They changed their previous attitude and resolutely refused to allow their son to be with Nissa.
But Bao Xi didn't listen to them, seeing that his parents didn't approve of him, in a fit of anger, he directly bought a ticket to Thailand, and wanted to leave, but Nissa persuaded him.
She didn't want Bao Xi to be so stiff because she and her family were so stiff, not to mention, love is precious, and relatives can be given up? You can't be ungrateful.
In the end, the two decided to join hands, hold hands, support each other, and go home to face together.
The iron pestle also sharpens the needle
Knowing Zi Moruo's parents, they could see that Bao Xi's feelings for Nissa were serious, and he was not joking.
The persistence of the two day and night completely moved the old couple.
They also learn about Nissa's tragic experience, and they can't help but feel sorry for this girl whose life is full of injustice.
In order to show her approval, Bao Xi's mother even washed Nisha's clothes herself.
But the world is often a matter of conventionality, and in the eyes of most people, they are still not accepted. Even because of Nissa's special identity,In Thailand, her identity is still male and she cannot get a marriage certificate.
For the two who love each other, this must be full of regrets.
But love can block everything, even if they can't become a legally recognized couple, Bao Xi wants to give Nissa a perfect wedding that is close to a fairy tale, and he wants the whole world to know that Nissa is his rightful wife.
Because of the dangers of sex reassignment surgery, Nisha's physical condition has not been very good, and Bao Xi has always been worried about his wife's safety.
After all, the average age of transgender people in Thailand is not even more than 40 years old.
Because of this, Bao Xi wants to contribute everything she has and love this fragile girl with her heart.
In order to avoid more harm and gossip, the two settled in Thailand, and Bao Xi also bought a 5 million villa for Nisha, ran a small restaurant in the local area, and lived a happy, quiet and peaceful life.
During the live broadcast, the two were like glue, which made many people envious.
Love can block mountains and rivers, cross countries and races, and don't care about the world's gaze, what matters is whether the two hearts that are close together are really compatible.
Nissa and Bao Xi are lucky to meet each other in their lifetimes and carry the rain with them.
We can also look forward to love, and believe that when we look back, that person is in the dim light.