Only simplicity can make us completely relaxed and comfortable.
In the bustling cities of Japan, there is a group of young girls who are pure-hearted, innocent, unpretentious, love life, live in the moment, and cherish and enjoy the little joys and happiness in life. They are not vain, do not pursue luxury, dress comfortably and casually, never wear heavy makeup, from their faces to their hairstyles and clothing, the whole gives people a fresh and natural feeling of just walking out of the forest, they are called "forest girls", referred to as "forest girls".
After this concept was introduced into China, there are more and more such simple and fresh young girls around us, they have different growth experiences and different personalities, but they generally have the mood of growing up like daisies, when they walk through the busy city, it seems to blow a cool breeze into the impetuous crowd.
Xia Xia, a girl who has worked in the home creative design industry for 5 years, is a veritable "forest girl", in fact, long before this title became popular in the city, she rode a small bicycle through the streets and alleys, living a simple and quiet life.
Opening Xia Xia's wardrobe, there are no expensive big brands, no fur clothes, only natural, comfortable, back-to-basics cotton and linen gowns, she doesn't like those high-tech materials that require complicated processing by the machine industry, and she doesn't like the fur obtained from small animals. Although her salary has long exceeded that of ordinary white-collar workers, she does not pursue famous brands, does not love jewelry, and does not blindly consume highly, and nearly half of her monthly income is contributed to a public welfare project aimed at restoring the ecology of wetlands. She can afford to buy a car, but insists on riding a bicycle every day, for her, although the city she lives in is not small, walking or cycling can meet her daily needs, low-carbon environmental protection and exercise; If you need to go to a distant place, you can take the subway or bus, which is cheap and convenient, and you can avoid the pain of traffic jams. The company where Xia Xia works provides free buffet meals, but she never takes too much so as not to spoil the food. When she goes out to eat with friends, she always advises everyone to order less food, don't be extravagant and wasteful, and if there is something unfinished, take it away. Xia Xia's industry is fiercely competitive, but she is unwilling to treat competitors as "enemies", let alone compare with others with malice. She is helpful, even if there are so many negative reports about "touching porcelain" in the news now, the victim suffers a loss, and she has to bear the loss if she is deceived, but when she encounters someone in trouble, she.
Xia Xia is a subjectivist who looks at people with "colored glasses", and her "yes still can't help but lend a hand."
"Tinted glasses" are the colors of the rainbow. In her eyes, no one is really bad enough to be evil, if she is hurt by others, she will cry and be sad, but she will never let hatred take root in her heart, she believes that the secret of happiness is not to be careful but to tolerate and forgive.
Some people question whether a girl like Xia Xia is "catching up with fashion", suspecting that her casualness and indifference are pretended, Xia Xia herself doesn't know how to refute, but she just thinks that the "forest life" that is indisputable with the world is very suitable for her.
The world is big, and when you spread your hands, your palms are small. When she was studying, she also thought that she would work hard in the future and live a life of calling for wind and rain, but doing what she was not good at and dressing up to meet the preferences of others brought her not the joy of success, but heavy pressure. She once wondered what she was living for, a dress worth thousands of yuan, a dinner that cost hundreds of dollars, carefully choosing the wording of the conversation with people, and enduring not wanting to step on high heels in order to win the favor of the opposite sex, is it worth it? But the skirt season is new, the exquisite food can only be eaten for a full meal, in the hearts of wine and meat friends, she is just a "partner", and the love that is painstakingly managed may not always be fresh.
Xia Xia comforted herself and said that life is actually not that complicated, but things that make her dissatisfied and unhappy will always happen, the more she wants more, the more tired she is, the more unhappy she is. It wasn't until she examined her lifestyle that she found that only by starting to change from her heart and letting go of her heart could life really become simpler, see the world differently, and want different things. Breaking free from the whirlpool of desire, Xia Xia became a refreshing "forest girl", following her heart and living a satisfying life.
Why follow your heart? Because there is no other way for a person to be completely relaxed and comfortable, and to choose their preferred lifestyle without harming others.
The matter of life, to put it more complicated, is earth-shattering, the sea and the sky, and I can't finish talking about it at any length; To put it simply, when you are born, you live, close your eyes and rest fully, open your eyes and it is a new day, try to do as much as you want to do, try to satisfy your desires, when your desires are not so huge, a small gain can fill your heart's desires.
Heaven may not be obtained by prayer, but hell must be hidden in desire, as Plato said - it is not the circumstances that determine a person's mood, but his state of mind. Frustration and dissatisfaction don't care if you're trying hard enough, as long as you desperately want to get it, when you can't get it, you will inevitably be stimulated negatively. Therefore, there is always a "dangerous building 100 feet high", and then there is "the hand can pick the stars", if you feel overwhelmed by the painstaking construction of a skyscraper, why not lie on the grass and look up at the distant starry sky? Grass and wildflowers are close at hand, and the dew is just as worth lingering. Do you want to live a "forest" life? Maybe you already have the answer in mind.