Hello, my name is Zhu Dabao!
Menghualu is adapted from Guan Hanqingyuan's miscellaneous song "Zhao Paner Fengyue Saves the Wind and Dust", Zhao Paner's best friend Song Yinzhang was originally a pipa in Qiantang and married to Zhou She, a businessman who had only known each other for 15 days.
But later it was discovered that Zhou She was actually a bad gambler who was addicted to gambling, and after marriage, she regarded her as a cash cow and did everything she could. But soon the sisters got out of the poor alley with their wisdom, turned around in time, and went to the big city, using the IP of Song Yinzhang's "No. 1 hand in Jiangnan" to regain their strength and form a group to start a business.
Song Yinzhang's character setting is actually not pleasing, he is not autonomous enough when he encounters things, his speech is a bit indiscriminate, he loves to play petty, and he even has a bit of a love brain.
But I think she is actually quite remarkable, she was deceived after marriage, her love and money were all gone, and she was tortured to the point that she couldn't form it. But she didn't accept her fate, she was the first person to say "I'm unwilling, I don't want to go back to Qiantang", and she was also the first person to mention that she wanted to start a business in a big city.
She was very brave enough to go to the Teaching Workshop Division to apply for a job and won the position of the head of the Pipa Workshop. Although she is young, she is a person who knows how to stop losses in time.
This reminds me of the crocodile law in economics, which means that if a crocodile bites your foot, if you use your hand to help you break free, the crocodile will bite your hand and foot at the same time, and the more you break free, the more you will be bitten, so if the crocodile bites your foot, your best bet is to sacrifice it.
It's not hard to understand, but it's not easy to do. My friend got married and had children at the age of 26, and he actually failed very well in running the family. In his 20s, he put his career as an important priority in his life, and because of his dereliction of duty and absence, he could not recover the loss of his marriage.
After all these years of reflection, he gradually reconciled with himself, and he could choose to live in a failed relationship in the past, with remorse and self-destruction, or he could choose to stop the loss in time, redeem himself and learn to make amends with love.
He chose the latter, and the failed marriage also made him understand that logic and reason cannot solve all problems, but also need to be emotional, empathetic, and let him understand the meaning and power of emotion itself.
Because I have fallen and failed, I hope that there will be more understanding and love between people, and less coldness and pain.
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