As the first person in my family to come out, I seem to have disgraced my family.
A few years ago, my sister was going to send her daughter to me, when her daughter had just turned 13 years old, and she dropped out of school and fell in love early, which made my sister worry a lot.
My sister said that my daughter can cook and fry shredded potatoes, and I don't have to worry about sending them to me.
At that time, my child was not yet a year old, and the baby was already too much for me to take care of, how could I think that I could take care of a child of half an age?
I refused.
Later, the little niece was seriously ill and died at a young age, and every time I thought about it, I felt guilty.
I don't know if it will be a different ending if I gritted my teeth and insisted on letting her come to me?
My cousin's daughter is still studying, and my brother-in-law greeted me early, as soon as my daughter graduates, she will send it to me immediately, and she has repeatedly emphasized: "You are her aunt, you can't ignore her, she will rely on you for work and in-laws in the future." ”
And my younger brother went directly to me after graduation, and he didn't even take the initiative to look for a job, waiting for me to introduce ready-made ......
I have never boasted in front of my family, saying how capable I am and how capable I am, and my parents once said that I was too picky, saying that I never took the initiative to invite relatives to be guests.
But how capable is a self-made child?
I appreciate the kind of life that the whole family lives together, actively working hard, not complaining about the difference in the environment, not inferiority to one's own current situation, not coveting the success of others, and always full of hope for the future.
After all, no one is anyone's savior, and their own life needs to go by themselves.