Nearly 40 years old, no house and car savings, do you have such friends around you?

Mondo Social Updated on 2024-02-18

Hello dear friends! First of all, I just want to tell you that in fact, I am just like you, an ordinary person who is busy with life, many times I will be troubled by the confusion and problems in front of me, and sometimes I don't even know what to do, but I always believe in one thing, that is, no matter how difficult it is, we can't easily shed tears or lose confidence, because as long as we persevere, we will always find a solution to the problem. So I would like to share with you some of the frustrations I have experienced, and I hope that these experiences can help you.

Just a few years ago, after our New Year, I found myself quietly entering the age of "30". Looking back at the past few years, although life has not been easy, there have been no big ups and downs, and there are no magnificent waves. Of course, there is also so-so love, and there are houses and cars that are put into action but can't be grasped. I found that I seemed to be a homeless figure, working hard every day to make a living, but I also unknowingly became the loneliest person in this lively city.

This kind of life suddenly made me feel lost. To be honest, the news of those young people from afar who huddle together for warmth and love makes me feel warm, and the things they do make me both envious and lost, and I also want to pursue my dreams like them, to love, to laugh, to feel life, and to find the feeling of being in love. But looking back at myself, I have always been caught in a deep conflict, and I don't understand why I am the way I am now.

You may not believe it, though, but for me, anxiety doesn't solve the problem, and I know that very well. So I started to take the initiative to find solutions to problems, and I started to pay more attention to my inner world, to understand what I really needed and what I was after. I know that we can only get closer to our dreams by constantly learning and growing, and even if it is difficult, at least I will not choose to give up.

Over time, I came to realize that there is no such thing as perfection in this world. Everyone has setbacks, but it's important that we face them with a positive and optimistic attitude. I've found that I'm not alone in life. There are too many ordinary people like me who are struggling for life, they may be like me, working hard every day, working hard for life, but they have also lost a lot of beautiful scenery in the easy way.

Therefore, I decided, in fact, there is no need to worry, we must firmly believe that in this world, there is always such a love that belongs to you, a piece of your warmth is looking forward to it, waiting for you to chase it with a firm pace and a passionate heart. And I will do my best to dig out the beauty of life and bravely pursue the little love in my heart.

Second, we should cherish the people around us, listen more to their ideas, and know what they lack. In this world, caring for others is also an integral part of life. After all, life is not only about competition and comparison, but also about sharing and giving. Then we also have to learn to relax and give ourselves some rest. Stress is not just a source of pain, the right amount of stress can often better stimulate one's potential, leading us to success and even perfection.

Finally, I would like to tell you that I believe that everyone is unique and that we all deserve to be loved and cherished. On the road of life, we will definitely encounter all kinds of problems and difficulties, but we must not give up our love for life and our expectations for the future. Instead, we should learn to be bold and deep within ourselves, to know what we really want, and to pursue our ideals with courage. And all of this requires us to have a strong heart and perseverance.

All in all, we can't give up easily, we must firmly believe that as long as we persevere in our pursuit and have the courage to face all the setbacks and difficulties in life, we will eventually usher in the success and happiness we have been expecting for a long time. There are bitter and sweet in life, as long as we feel and experience with our hearts, we can find the charm of life. At the same time, we should also cherish our friends and relatives around us and be grateful for their help and support. Here, I wish you all dear friends a smooth career, a happy family and a sweet relationship in the new year. Thank you!

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