I also began to understand this year that life is my own life, the world is my own world, it has nothing to do with others, what you want, just do it seriously, and it is also the norm of life to backfire, and there are some human things that must be accepted, because it is real, live yourself.
More than 20 years of marriage has made me realize: no one owes anything, I owe myself, now that the child is in college, I can live unscrupulously, I used to quarrel with my husband, thinking that the child is coming back from school, I dare not make a fuss, I should cook and cook, I should do housework and housework, I am afraid of affecting the child, now that the child is older, I can finally be myself.
What you say is true What really makes people grow is the tears that have been suffered and suffered, and I have also experienced a marriage change this year, and finally accepted the fact that he will not always love me, women must love themselves, maintain spiritual and financial independence, and only turn around and leave at any time.
In the past, my husband always bullied me and got angry at every turn, but I swallowed my anger because I felt that divorce was shameful and afraid of divorce in my previous concept. Thinking about it later, I work to earn a salary, do housework at home for free, take care of the children, what do I have to lose if I get divorced?I was not afraid at all, I left and left, and once I had a quarrel, I was louder than him, which scared him, and he never quarreled with me again [disappointed].
It's too real. I'm 36 years old, and I really feel like I've been living in a fairy tale world after something happened!I am really grateful to my parents and family for their love and protection, so that I can have no worries for 36 years!Thank God for letting me see through everything all of a sudden, it's not too late to change!
I'm 33, and I've been thinking about others since I was a child, and now I observe the female colleagues in my twenties at the company, and I find the opposite way of living, and the world opens. They are very self-conscious, and I am learning little by little, Xi, how Xi pay attention to themselves and love themselves. Let yourself grow instead of always putting others before yourself.