In the course of courting girls, there are situations that suggest that it may not be wise to continue to persevere. This article will give you four situations where you should consider giving up to help you avoid unnecessary persistence and time-wasting.
1. The other party has a stable relationship.
If you find that the girl you like already has a stable relationship, then continuing to pursue it may only cause her trouble. In this case, respecting her choice and her relationship with her partner, it would be a mature and wise decision to abandon the pursuit.
Second, there is a clear lack of common interest.
When courting a girl, if there is a clear lack of shared interests and values between you, continuing to insist on it may only make each other feel embarrassed and uncomfortable. In this case, giving up in time and looking for someone with whom you have more in common may be more conducive to your well-being.
3. The other party repeatedly refuses.
If you've expressed your affection to a girl many times, but she repeatedly refuses or remains indifferent, it could mean that she isn't interested in you. In this case, continuing to hold on will only leave you with unnecessary pain and frustration, and it would be a better option to give up at the right time.
Fourth, you feel unhappy.
Most importantly, pursuing a girl should be based on mutual liking and happiness for both parties. If you find yourself feeling unhappy in your pursuit, even sacrificing your dignity and bottom line, giving up is a wise choice. You deserve a relationship that makes you feel happy and blissful.
In short, in the process of pursuing girls, it is very important to identify and abandon unsuitable situations in time to protect one's feelings and time. Remember, love is a matter for both parties, and respecting each other's choices and feelings is also a kind of love for yourself.
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