The parent group has changed and become a "private group"? Opposite-sex parents secretly contact!
With the popularity of the Internet and smartphones, the parent group has grown rapidly in recent years. This information exchange platform was originally established to strengthen the link between schools and parents and promote educational development. The parent group is a fast and convenient communication channel for parents to exchange opinions and solve problems together with the school. However, as the number of parents in the group increases, problems and contradictions begin to emerge.
First of all, the parent group is used by some parents to show off their wealth, compare, and brag about their children's achievements. This kind of bad behavior leads to the tendency of the parent group to show off and compare, destroys the harmonious atmosphere in the group, and deviates from the original intention of the parent group. These parents use the group as a platform to show off themselves and their children, which not only hurts the feelings of other parents, but also has a bad impact on their children's psychology.
Second, parents openly abuse teachers and deny their professional competence. This behavior not only damages the teacher's self-esteem and professional image, but also weakens the child's trust in the teacher. Mutual respect and trust between parents and teachers is the cornerstone of a child's education, and if the parent group becomes a platform for mutual accusation and questioning, it will have a negative impact on the child's education.
What is even more shocking is that the group of parents shows infidelity, such as love and adultery between parents. The ** of these scandals not only caused the breakdown of the family, but also undermined the normal order of the parent group. Not only are these acts rebellious, but they also lose their role as good parenting examples.
There are three main reasons for the confusion of the parent group: the uneven level of parents' quality education and the lack of a sense of proportion; The management environment of the parent group is too lax, which encourages bad behavior; Some parent groups operate commercially, attracting outsiders to join, increasing the likelihood of conflict.
In recent years, similar problems with parent groups have been common. For example, in August last year, a scandal broke out in the parent group of B middle school in City A that a single-parent couple met through the group and had multiple improper relationships. This incident caused a great shock in their families and seriously affected the children's mental health.
In the face of the chaos of the parent group, various comments and opinions appeared on the Internet. Some people are in favor of disbanding parent groups, arguing that groups that cannot be managed effectively will only cause more problems. There are also calls for parents and schools to strengthen management and guidance, so that the parent group can return to normal order.
In my opinion, there are a few ways to solve the chaos of parent groups:
1) Strengthen parent education and improve the quality of parents. Parents are their children's first teachers, and their words and deeds directly affect their children. Therefore, it is necessary to strengthen the education of parents, improve their social literacy and moral concepts, and let parents realize that their words and deeds in the parent group have an important impact on the growth of their children.
2) Schools and teachers should play a guiding role. At the beginning of the establishment of the parent group, it is necessary to clarify the positioning and rules of the group, and formulate corresponding management measures. In the process of group operation, teachers and group managers should promptly correct parents' inappropriate remarks, persuade parents to understand the true meaning of education, and guide parents to participate in group discussions in a correct way.
3.Improve the management mechanism of parent groups. The management of the parent group should be jointly participated by the school and the parent committee, and effective management rules and mechanisms should be formulated. At the same time, it is necessary to establish communication channels, and once violations are discovered, corresponding measures should be taken immediately, such as suspending the right to speak, so as to maintain the normal order of the parent group.
4) Strengthen other communication channels between home and school. While parent groups are an important communication platform, it's not enough to rely solely on virtual cyberspace to communicate. Schools should also organize parents to participate in offline communication activities to deepen mutual understanding and trust, and reduce misunderstandings and bad behaviors.
In short, the concerted efforts of the whole society are needed to prevent the parent group from continuing to create problems and jeopardize the education system of the family and school. Parents should improve their own quality and understanding, and schools and teachers should play a guiding role, strengthen management, and establish a solid management mechanism. Only in this way can parents' organizations play an active role in promoting home-school cooperation and promoting the healthy development of children's education.