In life, as long as a person's heart has the idea of right and wrong, beauty and ugliness, good and bad, loss, and taking advantage. The obsession in his heart began to grow, and the painful feeling came.
There is a saying in Buddhism: Afflictions are Bodhi, that is to say, in life, when you feel that you are very aggrieved, angry, and uneasy, you must be grateful first, and be grateful to others for giving you this opportunity to correct yourself, the person who hurts you is achieving you, people can only grow in pain, and can transform in troubles, and patience can make a person's heart stronger.
When you learn to use wisdom to resolve your worries and pains, you can grow slowly, and a person's growth must be accompanied by all kinds of troubles and unsatisfactory.
It's up to you to face, accept, deal with, and resolve your own problems. And if in life, you haven't encountered setbacks, haven't experienced injuries, and don't even know what it's like to be wronged, how do you face the ups and downs in life? Do you feel like you can take on the heavy responsibility without going through painful tempering?
Therefore, in life, as parents, we must not be afraid of our children's hardships, and sometimes you even have to create some troubles and troubles for your children to experience. Children can only improve themselves and strengthen themselves in the midst of troubles. It was only when he became an adult that he was able to cope with all aspects of his life.