Shakespeare once said, "The road of true love is never bumpy." ”
Love, undoubtedly, is a mysterious and subtle power, and often the feeling of the heart is enough to reveal the truth without lengthy interpretation.
Being in the midst of a torrent of emotions and experiencing his passionate and obsessive appearance, you can also gain insight when he is cold and alienated.
When a man begins to "calmly give up" all kinds of care and affection for you, it shows the fading of love. A wise woman should know how to withdraw in time so as not to indulge in fruitless giving.
WeChat often doesn't reply, and always likes to find all kinds of excuses
Psychological research has pointed out that up to eighty percent of the conflicts between men and women are rooted in communication problems, either in an inappropriate way of communication or simply choosing to avoid communication.
There is no such thing as a 100% compatible partner in the world, and friction and disagreement are inevitable. At this time, effective communication is like a panacea for emotional fatigue, helping to strengthen the emotional bond between the two.
However, in reality, there is no shortage of such situations: some men deliberately do not reply to WeChat messages after receiving them, and even use various reasons to perfunctory each other. When you notice that the person is starting to become passive and no longer actively contact you, this may be a sign that you should consider letting go.
When two people who love each other get along, the last thing they should lack is to share the moments of life and express endless love and sweet words.
A person who really holds you at the top of his heart will always pay attention to your needs and give timely feedback and response to every piece of information you have. If he can't even reply to basic messages, then you shouldn't expect too much from him, or you'll only sink yourself into a deeper abyss of pain.
After all, not everyone will be able to accompany you to the end of the road, so please don't waste your precious time and energy on people who don't care about you. If maintaining a relationship requires you to constantly humble and make you physically and mentally exhausted, then letting go may be the best choice.
More and more slamming the doorNo longer willing to spend money for you
There is a deep-rooted line in the movie "Predecessor 3": "A man who spends generously for you may not mean that he loves you deeply, but a man who is stingy with what he pays for you is definitely not true love." ”
A man who is truly committed to love will do his best to give you whatever he thinks is the best at all costs. For them, it's not just about spending money, it's about how to fulfill your wishes through clever surprise planning, so that you can feel happy and happy. As cross talk actor Guo Degang mentioned in the interview, although he is busy making money and has no time to spend, he is happy to see his wife spend for him, and her happiness is his greatest happiness.
In today's society, there are many examples of people who have a lot of money but have to compete in love, and these people would rather spend a lot of money on luxury goods to reward themselves than spend a little on adding spice to their partner's life, such as a brand-name lipstick. Women often value not the specific amount of money their male partner spends on them, but the attitude and sincerity he shows.
While we can't simply measure the authenticity of love in terms of money, economic behavior does reflect how invested a person is in their feelings to some extent. A man who truly loves you, even with a limited income, will do his best to avoid hardship in your life. On the contrary, if a man is stingy with money and is not willing to invest in you, then his love may not be true.
Get close to other people of the opposite sex and no longer care about your feelings
One of the hot topics on the Internet is: "What is the most desperate situation in a relationship?" ”
One of the widely accepted responses said, "When he is no longer single-minded about me, even if it makes me sad, keep in close contact with other members of the opposite sex." ”
Loyalty is the cornerstone of the relationship, and only when both parties remain single-minded can the relationship last forever.
No matter how good the relationship with the opposite sex is, it is important to stick to the boundaries in the relationship so as not to sting the inner world of the partner.
In real life, even if some men have a stable partner, they still will not give up any opportunity to have an affair with the opposite sex, without any concern for the feelings of the other half.
It's not that they don't know how to measure, it's just that they don't care about it, and they don't want to cut off the disturbances of the outside world for you.
They have subconsciously begun to belittle your importance, stop worrying about whether your feelings will be damaged, and openly maintain intimacy with other members of the opposite sex.
When a man believes that you are firmly under his control, it is difficult to influence his decision, no matter how you behave.
Now that he doesn't care about your feelings and values your emotional giving, you don't have to expect him to reciprocate the same amount of affection.
Once he allows other members of the opposite sex to break into his world, the original emotional foundation has disappeared, and there is no need to have any nostalgia for him.
In the face of a person who no longer cares about you, you must have the courage to let go, and first learn to love yourself well, so that you can live your own life and deduce a wonderful life.