Hello! Hello everyone, I don't know if you are like me, I always hear my friends around me mention the word "severe" from time to time. Seriously, I was also blindsided at the beginning, what is "breaking off relatives"? Later, after a careful understanding, it was found that "severing relatives" is actually not simple, it is a phenomenon in the process of social development, and it has a certain universality. Today we will talk about this mysterious topic!
First of all, we must understand that "severance" is not a new thing! As early as the decade of the last century, we had this problem. But in fact, the word "severed relatives" originated in ancient China, I remember my father told me before, in the past, when people encountered conflicts of interest or emotional entanglements, in order to protect themselves, they often chose to cut off relations with relatives, which is the so-called "severed relatives". This reminds me of an interesting story, Uncle Wang in the village was also a hero when he was young! His family was so poor that he gritted his teeth and insisted on going to school, and finally was admitted to university and left his hometown. He said that the most fortunate thing in his life was to leave that small village and get rid of those wonderful relatives.
After talking about history, let's take a look at today's young people, how do they view the topic of "severance"? To be honest, I know a lot of "post-95" and "post-00" friends, many of them have the emotion of "inseparable from their parents and resisting relatives", and this emotion is getting more and more serious. It turned out that they felt that the relationship between relatives was too complicated, and the way relatives got along with each other made them feel depressed, uncomfortable, and even a little frightened. Some friends will suffer from insomnia for half a day because of a sentence between relatives; There are also some friends, their parents or relatives always do things that invade their privacy in the name of caring for them......There are many such situations, and many young people naturally want to "escape" the control of their relatives.
I feel like we've all been through this at one time or another. After all, our country has a large population and complicated family relationships, which also leads to various contradictions. Like me, I have friends around me who are independent in their minds and financially self-reliant, but their relatives are always like to interfere in their lives, and they often feel overwhelmed. So, they chose to "break off their relatives".
An article that says this is enough. The so-called "severance of relatives" does not mean that we are going to cut off contact with our relatives, but I hope that everyone can handle family relationships more rationally and scientifically. Whether you want to or not, you must not lose the obligation and responsibility to communicate with your elders. After all, we all come from the fertile soil of the same clan, and we are all inheritors of the same bloodline, and our bond with the family lies in the high-sounding family affection and the companionship of deep friendship.