Compared to my busy work, this year has not been easy for my children. In September, students enrolled as scheduled.
In this fourth-tier city, prices are not low. But compulsory education is really good, there are also private primary schools, tuition fees range, as little as 10,000 a year, more, and I didn't ask, because since kindergarten, or rather, from this small family, I have not thought about smuggling this route.
In our party district, I think that the implementation of 12-year compulsory education, as long as it is a public primary school to high school, it is free of tuition, and public kindergartens are also free. So, without hesitation, choose the public one.
As far as public primary schools are concerned, there are 5 day schools and 1 boarding school in Shangdang District. As far as education is concerned, regardless of the size of the city and the level of income, this is something that every family attaches great importance to. It seems that as long as everything is arranged for the child from a young age, he will be able to grow into the best child in the hearts of his parents in the future.
However, with many years of experience in education, I have met all kinds of children, elementary school, middle school, and now I have come into contact with college students, including my own growth experience and the growth of people around me. I know very well that school education is only a part of the child's growth path, more education in the family, in the words and deeds of the caregivers, in the social education, practical operation, practical experience will make the child really grow up. The most important thing is to educate yourself.
Every child has its own uniqueness, and I also believe that every child has what he is good at and what he is not good at.
In terms of scientific knowledge alone, most children are ordinary people in terms of learning this knowledge and ability, and similarly, in terms of drawing alone, most children are ordinary in any way they learn, and the same is true in other aspects. In other words, there are always a small number of people who can achieve excellence in some way.
But why are most of the children we see ordinary people? Perhaps, many children, including adults, have not yet found the path they are best at, or have found it but lost it.
Tsai Zhizhong knew he wanted to draw when he was 4 years old, dropped out of Taipei in the second year of junior high school to pursue his dream of comics, and now, he is a famous professional cartoonist, honorary dean of the Comics School of Jilin Animation Institute, and has achieved achievements in his own field of expertise.
Li Juan, a contemporary Chinese writer, her writing is poetic and picturesque, and the change of a cloud is poetic in her pen, along with the suffering in the process of growing up. I didn't like to go to class since I was a child, dropped out of high school, and started amateur submission at the age of 20, writing out the words I had immersed myself in, and then more people were immersed.
Wei Dongyi Wei Shen, born in the same year as me, is now an assistant professor at Peking University, and it can be said that he skipped all the way during his school years.
Above, I want to say that in a certain field, most children are ordinary people, for example, the road to school exams. However, everyone is an extraordinary person in the field they are good at.
I just want to say that I didn't spend money to send my children to private elementary schools, and I really didn't think it was necessary, and I didn't ask someone to find a relationship to send my children to the best public elementary schools. It is to go with the flow, divided by pieces, and the child attends the primary school next to his kindergarten - Liulin Primary School.
This school is a nine-year system, and like the children's kindergarten, it is very new. The name of the school is not the willow forest in the wind of willow forest, but it comes from a nearby village called willow forest, the original village elementary school is very dilapidated, because the collapsed teaching building has also become a dilapidated house. Coupled with the surrounding renovation, more and more people are buying houses, ** planning, new kindergartens, primary schools, junior high schools and high schools have been built here.
From my house to here, two bus stops, and my youngest son is still in the kindergarten next door. Convenient.
The school is newly built, and the hardware facilities are much better than when I was in elementary school. When I was in elementary school, I sat on a bench with a table for two people, and the blackboard was a real blackboard, made of inked wood. I've been in two first-graders, and I didn't go to a large class, so I guess I skipped a grade. I don't know what the reason is, maybe it's to wait for my kindergarten classmates to go to school together, anyway, I studied in the first grade for two years. I remember the first exam in the first grade, 70+ in Chinese and 80+ in mathematics.
The eldest son's first exam, it should be the midterm, the teacher didn't give a score, this time the final exam, there are results, Chinese 60+, math 70+, compared with me, still has a lot of potential. I didn't have any young connections back then, and he didn't either, I wrote my homework back then, all by myself, and he was tutored by his parents, but now the overall IQ of the children has improved, plus I am a girl, he is a boy, and this gap is enough to make up for it.
But this result is by no means a good result compared to his peers. A good score should be at least 95,100 points.
However, after I got off work, my son brought the test paper and showed it to me, saying that I had scored more than 70 in mathematics, and I was still very happy to congratulate: "Yes, I will be able to take more than 80 next time!" ”
One is that I believe that he will improve, and the other is that I think encouragement will be more educational than criticism. On this friendly basis, that night, our mother and son had a 90-point shared dream. I assist, he works! I will formulate the plan, he will implement it, and I will assist. Although this plan, because of my reasons, has not yet been formulated, this is also the most important assignment of the year.
As mentioned above, this elementary school was newly built, and the hardware equipment is absolutely leveraged, and there are two pictures on the Internet, one on the front and one on the side, to feel it.
The sense of ritual for the children is also full of drops:
From walking the red carpet, drumming Mingzhi, seniors presenting bookmarks, oaths, group photos and other links, the design is very interesting and meaningful. Fortunately, I accompanied him on this day. I also know that I will be farther and farther away from him, journey after ride, and send him farther and bigger!
We can't take care of children for a lifetime, so we need to teach them to be independent as early as possible, so that when they can stand up, they don't have to hold them all the time, when they can eat, they can wean, and when they can think, let them make their own decisions. Although you will fall when you walk, you will have diarrhea when you eat, and you may make a decision that is not quite right, it is these things that will make your child grow into an adult.
The first semester of my son's first grade is over, and so is my year. Everything happens with a meaning, and at the end of the year, my mother is sick, hospitalized, and has surgery. I realized that there were many things in life that I was missing.
One thing after another, at the end of January, I applied to the leader for a more flexible way of working, I hope that this year is a new beginning, starting from the heart, starting from home, so as to move towards no confusion!
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