When a person reaches the marriageable age but is still single, he can't help but be anxious, eager to find his other half as soon as possible and step into the palace of marriage. It seems that only when you get married can you get peace of mind. So, under this anxiety, some people even have the idea of finding someone to marry casually, even if they don't love each other, they feel that it doesn't matter.
What's more, I think that as long as you get married first, even if you don't have a good life later, it seems that it is better to choose divorce than to be single all the time, at least if you have been married, you can be more practical.
At a certain age, perhaps around thirty years old, many people are prone to fall into such a predicament. For various reasons, because of the environment, people can feel depressed and anxious. However, in any case, you really shouldn't get married casually, knowing that the other party is not suitable, and you can't feel true sincerity and respect, and you still insist on rushing forward. You can't be in a hurry about marriage, and you don't have to be too anxious.
Being alone for the time being is not so scary. Anxiety about being single seems to have become the consensus of many people. Even if some people live well when they are single, they are good materially, and they live a fulfilling life, but they still feel that being single seems to be a sin, as long as they are not married, everything seems worthless and they can't raise their heads.
In many people's minds, being single seems like something that shouldn't happen. Facing the strange eyes of relatives and friends will make people feel ashamed of their parents. But in reality, no one really cares if you're single or not, and how you're doing. Everyone is just coping with their own lives and is busy enough. To be honest, calm down and think about it, in fact, you will find that many concepts are just that you have heard too much, and slowly take them seriously, thinking that you need to get married before a certain age.
But in fact, marriage is not necessarily related to age, let yourself realize and really recognize that there is no time requirement for marriage, let yourself understand that there is nothing terrible about being single, and there is no need to rush into marriage.
Getting married in a hurry mostly only brings more trouble. You can grab any person and let them fulfill your wish to get married. When you meet someone you don't like, feel bad, and know that you don't fit at all, just because of your sense of urgency, you force yourself and the other party to get the certificate quickly and become a family.
But is it really that simple to get married? After having a marriage certificate, you will find that there is no sense of ease between yourself and the other party, and when you look at each other every day, you will only want to escape, and it is difficult to really treat each other and have any feelings.
When you really marry each other, you will find that it does not make you feel relaxed, and you will only want to escape from each other every day. Getting married doesn't give you real freedom, it makes you feel constrained. When the day comes, divorce may be simple, but you will also find yourself regretting it while realizing that your arbitrary choice will only lead to more pain.
No matter what age you are, if you feel anxious, unhappy, and wandering every day, I hope you can calm down and recognize the reality, let yourself understand that you can get married at any age, and let yourself truly realize that there is nothing wrong with being single, and you don't need to be anxious about rushing into marriage.
Marriage is an important journey in life and should not be rushed. Escaping the status quo and marrying casually will only make the outcome worse. Everyone deserves a good marriage, but don't rush it. Life is a gradual process, and marriage also takes time to choose and cultivate. There is nothing wrong with being alone for the time being. Believe in yourself and achieve your own happiness.