In the past, love was so simple and beautiful, and the sweetness of love was intoxicating, however, more and more young people are now afraid of getting married. For many young people, love seems to be more reliable and simple, while marriage seems to be "difficult" and prohibitive.
So, what exactly are young people afraid of?
Perhaps they are afraid of the bride price and trivialities of marriage when they talk about marriage, and they are afraid that two people who love each other will quarrel because of material conditions. They are afraid that love will be turned into an exchange of fame and fortune, and the two families are entangled in the short-sighted interests of bride price and dowry and destroy what should be pure love.
For men, they are more worried about the high requirements of the woman's family for the bride price and their own financial troubles. Modern men are overwhelmed by bride price and material pressures, and choose to avoid marriage. Because nowadays, a house and a car seem to have become the "hard standard" for marriage, and many men are reluctant to consider the possibility of marriage without meeting this standard.
For most women, it's more about the emotional aspect. It is often said that "marriage is the grave of love", and many women are afraid that love will gradually fade in marriage and turn into resentment. Their concerns are compounded by society's constraints and expectations of women. Women are expected to take care of their families, husbands and children, but their rights are not fully protected. worked hard for the family all his life, but in the end, he faced her husband's derailment, family breakup, and nothing to gain.
For women, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is also a thorny issue. They are afraid of their husband's inaction, afraid of their mother-in-law's dominance, and they become like outsiders in the family. Therefore, for women, the family background and attitude of the other half are also crucial.
Regardless of whether it is a man or a woman, once married, the responsibilities on their shoulders increase. This is also one of the reasons why many people are afraid to get married. The fear of shirking responsibility is a source of fear for young people, who are bound to three families and unable to have full freedom and tranquility.
However, everyone's fear is based on the fear of the unknown, and the fear of getting married cannot be avoided. But we need to understand that marriage is not only a close connection between two people, but also a way for two people to grow together and support each other. When facing marriage, we can choose to cherish the happiness of the present and bravely face the unknown in the future. Only by experiencing marriage can we truly understand the meaning and value of marriage. Let us believe that even with fear and hesitation, it is possible for love and stability to coexist.