Whenever and wherever we are, we always encounter many selfish people who are accustomed to accepting the selfless offerings of others, even believing that this should be the case. This deep-seated malaise manifests itself in their greedy pursuit of easily obtainable goods or benefits. Why are they reluctant to put in the hard work, after all, these low-hanging fruit benefits seem tempting. In terms of emotions, such people tend to appear cold, they do not think that the feelings of others are very precious, and they regard the feelings and love of others as if they were a mustard. However, this is only one of the means they need to obtain it, and they know it. In this way, we don't need to be grateful for their behavior, just as the saying goes, "Zhou Yu beats Huang Gai - one is willing to fight, the other is willing to suffer", because we have always done nothing wrong, and we have never forced the other party to pay for ourselves.
I will not judge whether this idea is correct or not, but I believe that those who do not know how to be grateful will get nothing. The lesson I've learned from many people is that everyone needs motivation. When we take everything for granted, we ignore the emotional feelings of others. Life can only move forward, and there is no turning back.
For example, Min Fei (not his real name) has a girl he has loved for eight years. He fell in love with her at first sight, but it never seemed like he had him in the girl's eyes. The only thing he could do was silently stand by her side, expecting her to look back. Despite being rejected all the time, he still cares about her in his own way and looks forward to being touched by her one day. He imagined a bright future with her, and was motivated by it, as well as the occasional encouragement she gave. He once thought that he still had hope, however, watching her dating one boyfriend after another, Jing Fei's heart gradually wavered.
Because of this, Jing Fei decided to let go of this relationship and find his own happiness.