I just went home today, and the battle to urge marriage has started haha! I went to my house to hang out. As soon as my mother saw her, she said, "Hurry up and persuade my girl to get married quickly!" ”
We looked at each other and smiled, we had just returned home and the battle had begun!
I still remember on the first day of the Lunar New Year last year, I was surrounded by seven aunts and eight aunts to preach.
You're almost 30 years old, why don't you get married in a hurry? ”
How happy it is to get married and have children! You see that we go out on the first day of the new year, how happy are you children? If you don't have children in the future, how lonely will your family be? ”
If you don't get married and have children, you are adding a burden to society and being irresponsible to yourself and your family! ”
Even Chinese New Year's Eve dinner Chinese New Year's Eve night, my uncle said, "Your grandfather is old now, if your grandfather can't wait for your wedding banquet, I won't recognize you in the future!" ”
And so on and so forth. Last year, my rank was a bit low, and I was preached by the seven aunts and eight aunts one by one and my mother added fuel and vinegar to the side, and I cried with grievances.
It would just say, I just don't want to get married, I feel so naïve that it's not time to get married.
But this year, as I grow up and have more sophisticated combat experience, I won't be so stupid as to say that I don't want to get married and embarrass myself.
Let me share my experience!
Sloppy. For example, when my mom asked me when I was engaged, I used to say: don't think about it, don't get engaged!
Now I'll say May Day, and when it's almost May Day, she will ask again, and I'll talk about Eleven!
Let's just drag and drag, although my mother also knows that we are playing sloppy, so what? We can't be too wronged by ourselves.
Be truthful and speak your mind.
Last year I was really stupid and didn't dare to say what I thought. After this year's tempering, my heart is much stronger, and I also have the courage to face my parents and tell them what I think directly.
For example, my future is more important than love, and I want a bright future more.
Don't be afraid to have different ideas with your parents, of course you will have different ideas, but you must also strive for it, after all, this short life is your own, and it is more important to remember yourself.