Let's explain it first, so that you don't have to talk nonsense.
Yes, extreme boredom will lead to nonsense, and excessive will hurt eggs. Therefore, egg pain expresses extreme emptiness and boredom due to impetuousness, is there egg pain in marriage?
Fu Seoul's divorce may cater to a sentence: My egg hurts, let's leave.
Oh well, off.
Therefore, no matter how long Lao Liu has been thinking, struggling and struggling, this kind of divorce between him and Fu Seoul is commonly known as: life is quite boring.
Perhaps, divorce is as simple as that.
However, this is actually a kind of self-right redemption.
Fu Seoul said that he always loves Lao Liu, but because of this, he often makes Lao Liu happy, and she feels that this is the harmony of love, the more harmonious she is, the happier she is, and the happier she may be, the more indulgent she may be, but she never asks Lao Liu if she is happy.
I'm so happy, why aren't you happy?
I don't know if Fu Seoul asked Lao Liu this question.
In fact, the problem itself is a kind of unfairness, and it can even be said that this is a person's unequal and disrespectful attitude towards another person.
So if Lao Liu asks rhetorically: What do you say?
What do you think Fu Seoul can say?
Fu Seoul's experience of becoming popular is actually inseparable from Lao Liu, he regarded teasing and ridiculing his husband as love and pride, but it was more about material and capital.
This material caters to a lot of people.
But some people will argue that I think our relationship is unbreakable. Or, I say this because I think of you as myself, you are me.
Listen, in the face of such a declaration of love, how will Lao Liu respond? If it were you, how would you respond?
This is actually called arrogance, self-exaltation, or pretentiousness.
Perhaps, in consciousness and behavior, she does treat the other party as her own, but because of this, she obliterates the other party, making their freedom, dignity and individuality become the same as air, and she feels that the other party can only ignore it as love.
And this is precisely her selfishness.
Fu Seoul once said: I have a husband to raise, but he just refuses to divorce. Because he takes care of the children and takes care of the housework, and helps me to form my career.
This is said by Lao Liu, it is a high value, and it is a positive energy that has just been hard.
Some people say that only a cautious man thinks there is something wrong with this.
But unfortunately, men's desire for independence and challenge is a hormonal effect, and the secular society also makes the vast majority of people unable to get rid of vulgarity, so Fu Seoul has repeatedly expressed desire, as if to destroy the other party's glandular function.
Don't say it's in the name of love, it's just an excuse to make people laugh, just because you really can't treat each other with respect and equality.
Therefore, such a feeling may also be like a fish in the throat, Lao Liu may really not be able to swallow it, so he has to end this marriage with me unhappy after thinking about it repeatedly.
Or, he didn't think about it at all, and only thought about it for three seconds before letting go of the other person and letting go of love.
Therefore, no matter how you define the ending of Fu Seoul and Lao Liu's marriage, you will actually be asked:
What is love?
In fact, love should be very simple, that is, to form responsibility and order on the basis of mutual happiness, to trek together with a converging soul, to spend life together, and to live a quiet and powerful life of supporting each other.
Such love may be simple and happy.
And to hold all their needs on a person will eventually make each other unbearable, and fall apart because they can't stand it.
Therefore, love should be, you love him as he is, without panic or urgency; He loves you as you love, without complaining or annoying. Only when it is connected from the heart without ornamentation, such love can be calm and joyful.
So, what is love? Love is freedom and happiness.
Do you agree? 
Of course, while Lao Liu announced the end of his marriage, he also blamed himself for all the problems, which showed the bearing he had always held, but was it because of love? It's hard to say.
We can read the following information from Lao Liu's reflection and responsibility:
1.Lao Liu is actually more mature and responsible than Fu Seoul, and this maturity actually has a positive effect on personal growth and future relationships.
It's just that for some reason, or more because they want to make themselves happier, they are not very willing to face and solve problems.
2.In addition to some visible factors such as violent infidelity that will inevitably cause marriage failure, the lack of communication and understanding is also the main reason for the marriage to fall into depth.
Obviously, Fu Seoul and Lao Liu are the same, although the two of them or one of them no longer want to maintain their marriage through communication, but in the end Lao Liu still takes the responsibility on himself, which can only be said to be regret and helplessness.
In fact, marriage failure is usually the result of interaction between the two parties, such as insufficient communication, understanding and tolerance.
3.In fact, I prefer Lao Liu, his responsibility is all-round, even in the decision to divorce, he is trying to protect the other party, to avoid the outside world from causing disturbances to Fu Seoul, choosing to take all the responsibilities alone, and willing to bear the ** pressure alone, which is very manly.
4.In psychology, excessive responsibility is sometimes referred to as psychological defense, a self-imposed fence to cope with feelings of guilt or frustration.
In this marriage, we cannot rule out that Lao Liu has such a mentality.
In fact, everyone has such and such problems in the failure of every marriage, and most of the reasons are more complicated. Therefore, the above inferences cannot fully restore the complex factors of their marriage failure.
However, we should figure out some pros and cons from thousands of marriages, so that we can better understand marriage and the love in everyone's heart.
The maintenance state of a marriage is actually a balanced relationship between giving and demanding, and the fundamental thing to maintain is that neither demand nor dependence can be greedy.
There is a story for everyone in a marriage, and a failed marriage means that you have to come out of your own story, and you have to come out of it.
This is true for Lao Liu and Fu Seoul, for you and me, and for everyone.
Come out and set off for happiness.
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