At the beginning of the new semester, the children stepped into the familiar classroom with excitement and apprehension.
However, some children may fall into the cycle of "self-fulfilling prophecy" early on, unconsciously acting according to a predetermined prophecy, which eventually leads to the prophecy coming true.
So, what is "self-fulfilling prophecy", and why do children fall into such a cycle?
1. Self-fulfilling prophecy: the "magic circle" in the hearts of children
1.The mystery of Thomas's theorem.
"Self-fulfilling prophecy", also known as Thomas's theorem, refers to the fact that people unconsciously act according to known prophecies, which eventually make them come true.
The concept stems from Thomas's theorem, which states that if people define a situation as real, then that situation becomes reality, and in the world of children, the same theorem applies.
2.How children create their own realities.
When children presuppose a situation or outcome, such as believing that the teacher doesn't like them or that a subject is difficult, they will experience subtle changes in behavior and attitudes.
These changes may affect how teachers perceive them, further affecting their performance in the classroom.
In this way, they really "foresee" their "fate" and fall into a vicious circle of self-fulfilling prophecies.
3.Jump out of the cycle of "prophecy" and take control of your future.
Parents should not let "self-fulfilling prophecies" become a stumbling block to their children's development, but help them realize that their behaviors and attitudes can be changed.
Through positive encouragement and guidance, parents can help their children break this cycle and see more possibilities.
Only then can they truly take control of their own future and become masters of their own destiny.
2. Crack the code of "self-fulfilling prophecy" and oppose your own fate
1.Change your perspective and see a different future.
Sometimes, children focus too much on negative information, leading them to have pessimistic expectations about the future.
Parents need to teach them how to adjust their perspective and see the positive side of things.
In this way, they can face the future with a more optimistic mindset.
When they feel like they're in a rut, we want to guide them to think about how they can get out of it through effort and change.
We can work with them to analyze problems, find solutions to problems, and encourage them to actively try.
In this way, they can gradually develop an optimistic mindset and bravely face the challenges of the future.
2.Get moving, let your dreams come true.
Knowing that their expectations will influence their behavior and outcomes, children should learn to take positive action to make a difference.
Positive action is the key to debunking self-fulfilling prophecies, and parents should encourage their children to take positive action in the face of difficulties and strive to change the status quo.
When they encounter problems, we need to guide them to think about how to solve the problem through their own efforts, rather than passively waiting for the result.
Parents need to stimulate their inner motivation and let them work hard for their dreams.
In interpersonal interactions, children should learn to let go of prejudices, look at others with kindness, break down preconceived barriers, and build more harmonious relationships with others. Parents should guide their children to learn to respect, understand and care for others.
When they have a conflict with their classmates or teachers, we should encourage them to think from the other person's point of view and try to understand the other person's feelings and thoughts. In this way, they can gradually learn how to get along with others and build more harmonious interpersonal relationships.