Some people must be guarded against.
Life is like a boat on the sea, everyone is in their own boat, don't easily abandon your own boat and get on someone else's boat. Only by protecting oneself and avoiding open guns and hidden arrows can one make oneself invincible.
In life, we have to deal with people every day. The most complex and difficult thing to figure out is the human heart. To behave in the world and participate in competition, we must cultivate a pair of sharp eyes that understand people's hearts, and quietly see the true thoughts of others. Modern society is rapidly changing, competition is fierce, and each member plays a different role. If you master the ability to see through people's hearts in an instant, you will be able to take the lead, be invincible, and become a strong person in life.
When it comes to **, people hate it, and many units and individuals have the experience of being deceived. In the shopping mall, it is as big as cheating money, cheating things, and cheating contracts, and as small as cheating eating, drinking, and cheating samples. In this impetuous society, many people are dreaming of getting rich overnight. So, in broad daylight, all kinds of naked ** are spread in every corner of society.
* The act is more hidden, more cunning, and more dangerous than the act of stealing and stealing. Although it is not a direct threat to people's lives like robbery, it can still make people gnash their teeth with hatred and make you feel extremely angry while losing your wealth and discoloration.
* It is also divided into "three, six, nine and so on": low-level**, street cheating, using props to do some tricks to deceive people, this kind of person you can avoid being fooled if you don't talk to him; Intermediate**, several people work together to make a game, tease and praise you, and confuse you in the clouds, this kind of person is also easy to prevent, and quitting greed can be prevented; The most powerful is the senior **, you were deceived and helped him count the money, bow to him, and be grateful to Dade.
A person's actions are explicit, but his thoughts are implicit. Sometimes, actions and thoughts are not aligned. For a variety of reasons, people like to hide their true thoughts, and their words and actions are often inconsistent with their real motives. Therefore, to get along with people, one must first understand the "secrets" of the mind behind people's behavior.
As the saying goes, "A hundred people have a hundred natures." "Some people look kind and kind, but in fact they are cunning at heart, and they only wear a cloak of friendliness; There are those who are respectful to you, but as soon as they turn around, they start speaking ill of you. There are those who wear a veil of sincerity and fear, but they just want to take advantage of your kindness and credulity to defraud you of your money......There are also people who, although they don't mean to hurt you, like to spread gossip and chase after you, and as a result, you suffer losses. People often say: "It is difficult to draw dragons and tigers, and it is difficult to draw bones, and you don't know your heart when you know people." It can be seen that knowing the heart is very important.
It is true that the style of handling things embodied in the word "prevention" is closed, heavy, and depressing, which runs counter to the principles and spirit of openness, brightness, and freedom in modern communication. However, the formation and objective existence of the "heart of guarding against people" and "the way of guarding against people" in Chinese social life not only have their historical inevitability, but also contain some rational thinking and insight into human nature and people's hearts, and it is not advisable to criticize them in general. The problem is also that the modernization of society does not mean the perfection of human morality, the purity and transparency of human relations, and the cessation of intrigues. In this regard, the "way of defense" still has its raison d'être.
Despite the constant changing packaging, the basic formula remains the same. Only by exposing these deceptions can good people see through the performance of ** and avoid suffering losses. In view of the current social situation, in order to avoid being deceived, we must improve the level of identification, and second, we must strengthen our ability to prevent fraud.