Because the environment in which he lives is amazing. An orphan does not let go of the lonely home, let him live alone. In general, attachment patterns are established in the first three years of life. When he was born, Naruto had no father or mother. When he meets Sasuke, he thinks that the other party will understand him, and he is relieved to know that Sasuke is alone.,Sasuke is used as a companion similar to an imaginary friend in his childhood heart.,Attached to the attribute of the object of emotional sustenance (the general object is the mother).
And in the later period of getting along with Sasuke, he showed the characteristics of being against each other, separated and uneasy. It can be presumed to be ambivalent (also known as anxious) attachment. There are also corresponding pictures in the play. Relatable. When he was three years old, Naruto was mostly in the hospital and asked someone to take care of him. It's about the kind of caregiver who takes care of many people at once. This intimate caregiver is the baby's first perception of the parental figure, but the caregiver is unpredictable, does not know what the other person will leave, or what the other person will stay, and rarely interacts with the baby's emotions.
As you can imagine, the level of attention is not high. When he has the ability to be independent, he will give him a house and let him go freely. The three generations came over and sent a money, and they came and left as they said, and they didn't stay to play with little Naruto, and they didn't care about what Naruto ate or whether the food was rotten. Kakashi understood that the new trainee went to see Naruto's living environment and saw that his milk expired, and the three generations were noncommittal. Even if Naruto wants to get close to the three generations, I'm afraid he won't have much of a chance. So I can only be lonely.
This type of uneasiness and anxiety is quite high. Correspondingly, he also showed a fierce reaction to Sasuke's words and actions. Such as before the departure of the country of waves. Sasuke said, "It's not hurt, coward", and Naruto was greatly irritated and stabbed his hand on the back; All kinds of sick and delicate speeches; Fear of the disappearance of the relationship and cast eyes on everyone who pays attention to Sasuke, etc.
He is desperate, and he can no longer seek comfort from others, so he can only comfort himself, and the link brings damage to the bones, so naturally he no longer has illusions, forcing him to vent his self. Why Naruto and I are also human pillars, they are also excluded, and they are also cared for. But I'm blackened, Naruto doesn't, it's because of this difference - the object of emotional sustenance.
Children instinctively seek emotional connections, just like a child who is injured outside and comes home to find comfort from his mother and recovers. Naruto's emotional object (Sasuke), no matter how he was injured outside, as long as he went to trouble Sasuke, Sasuke did not ignore his existence, it was not unpleasant, after all, it was not ignorance. He was comforted. In fact, ignoring neglect is the most painful. It's dislike to be hated.
But there are reasons why you have to do it. A lot of the time he takes the initiative to stir up trouble, and he does the same to other people. It was precisely because he sought this link in a rehearsal of the student battle, because Sasuke wiped out the clan, so he did not have Naruto in his eyes once, and Naruto was obsessed with this matter. In any case, Naruto is expected to link to the object and receive feedback from him. On the other hand, I love Luo's classmates.
He no longer had the person he wanted to link to and give back to. And Naruto's link was not broken. It never stopped. There is no blackening.
A lot of people mentioned Iruka. However, Iruka lets Naruto know that he cares about him very late, at the age of twelve. Previously, he even thought that Iruka might not like him, and asked Iruka why he did that to himself. It appears too late, the critical period of personality development (3 or 7 years old) has passed, and the attachment pattern has basically formed and affected for a long time. Naruto still feels lonely when he's alone.
And there is already a specific object of emotional appeal, and the object will not change, Naruto's focus and sense of security are more on Sasuke's side, and he has always expected his recognition (feedback) Therefore, although Iruka's role is good, the number of appearances arranged in the later stage is not much. It also shows that the key to supporting Naruto's inner motivation is not Iruka, he is more of a role in walking to the point of difficulty and awakening support.