Rural single men s marriage dilemma, where to find love?

Mondo Fashionable Updated on 2024-02-19

Rural single men's marriage dilemma, where to find love?

Located in the Jizhong Plain of Hebei Province, Laofu Village is a village with more than 400 families and more than 2,000 people. Because it is far from the main road, there are no barber shops, no restaurants, no markets, only elementary school, which is the first and second grades. Due to the inconvenient living environment, many girls do not want to get married in the village, so there are many single men in their 30s in the village, and there are more than 40 single boys in their 30s. I chatted with a few cousins in the past few days, and I learned that the two families next door had two boys, but they didn't marry wives. Some have good family backgrounds, and some young men are good, but they just don't have a partner.

Research on the causes and countermeasures of the marriage and love dilemma of young men in China.

1. Take action.

If you want to find your wife, you must first have the courage to face it. Don't lock yourself in the house and wait for the matchmaker to come to the door to ask for a kiss, that's to see other people's things. If her hard conditions are not met, or even too bad, then she may not agree. Conversely, if you are bold enough to go outside, you may have more opportunities to build a relationship with you. If it's emotionally, it's even better.

2. Enhance your competitiveness.

If you want to succeed, you must have the courage to improve your competitiveness. As the saying goes, "A well-maintained plane tree will always have a phoenix to build a nest." "If he mixes well, there will be women who like him. To get ahead in a large group of single men, you must have your own peculiarities. Whether it's academically or in life, you can become more glamorous and fascinating.

3. Pay attention to personal reputation.

In the countryside, a person's reputation matters. Let's take a family next door, the husband likes to play cards, the wife likes to drink, and in the end, the children are in their thirties and have not yet married, which is also related to the bad reputation outside. No one wants to marry a lazy man. This kind of thing is not only happening in the husband's village, but also in several surrounding villages. Therefore, you should pay attention to your reputation, be responsible, and have a sense of responsibility, so that you can better attract the attention of the opposite sex.

A little bit of my opinion and reflection on the problem of marriage and love in the countryside.

The problem of marriage is widespread in the countryside and is not an isolated phenomenon. Judging from the situation in the village, there are many men, but not all of them are "leftover men" and cannot find wives. On the other hand, the men of the village also face many disadvantages of the external environment, such as the general economic situation and the relatively closed living environment. So many girls will be a little hesitant.

However, when faced with this dilemma, we should not stop in one place, let alone completely shift the blame to the external environment. You should take action to change your own situation and the situation around you, and find opportunities and possibilities for marriage. When talking about countermeasures, the author gave several opinions such as "going out", "improving their own competitiveness" and "paying attention to personal reputation", in order to improve the competitiveness and success probability of men in the marriage market.

In addition, in the countryside, I deeply understand how people's thoughts and values can affect marriage. In rural areas, people's choice of marriage partners will no longer be simple emotions or mutual attraction, but a comprehensive consideration of family background, economic status, family status, etc. This may cause even more trouble for young people who are not married. Therefore, changing the concept and changing the concept so that more people can accept diversified and personalized marriage methods is also a major issue for us.

The resolution of the problem of marriage and love in rural areas depends not only on the efforts of individuals, but also on the care and support of the whole society. We look forward to working together from all walks of life to create more opportunities and opportunities for the majority of single men, so that they can have their own happiness. It is hoped that the whole society can become more open and inclusive, and form a more diverse and freely chosen marriage atmosphere, so that everyone can find their own belonging and happiness in their marriage.

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