In homeschooling, parents often encounter such a problem: children always seem to "can't hear" us. The reasons behind this may be far more complex than we think. Today, we will ** the truth that children "can't hear" and share a few effective ways to help you make your child obedient without getting angry or yelling.
First, let's understand the two situations in which a child "can't hear":
1.Really can't hear: When children focus on an activity, their ability to divide their attention is not as mature as **. When you tell a child who is engrossed in watching TV or playing, "It's time," it's likely that they really didn't hear you, rather than deliberately not listening.
2.Pretending not to hear: This is a kind of silent rebellion of the child against the parents. Their inner thoughts may be "Why should I listen to you?" This situation can be caused by a variety of reasons, such as parents ignoring their children's inner thoughts, having an overly tough attitude, habitually ignoring children due to excessive yelling, or parents lacking principles that make children think it's okay not to listen.
So, how do you get your child to really "hear" and be willing to cooperate? Here are a few practical strategies:
Strategy 1: Make good use of body language. When communicating with your child, start by tapping them, shaking hands, or reminding them to look into your eyes. This way, it is easier for the child to focus on your words.
Strategy 2: Defend the bottom line. Set clear rules and stick to them. For example, when it's time for bedtime, remind your child gently but firmly, and take action if necessary, such as turning off the TV. Even if your child is crying, be patient with him and let him know that you mean it.
Strategy 3: Adjust the way you speak and the tone of your voice. Express rejection in a positive way and avoid accusations with negative emotions. When your child can't, think differently and offer options or describe your feelings so that your child is more willing to work with you.
Through these methods, you can communicate more effectively with your child and build a positive parent-child relationship without getting angry or yelling. Remember, education is not a power struggle, but a bridge of understanding and cooperation. Let us work together, listen attentively, guide with love, and make family education more harmonious and beautiful.
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