Dear readers, have you bought your ticket home and are ready to welcome the New Year's bells and hugs from your family? Returning home for the Chinese New Year is a tradition that we Chinese have been doing for thousands of years, and it is also the most anticipated time of the year.
Coming home for the Chinese New Year is a time for us to reunite with our parents.
But, you know what?
Going home is not only about returning to that familiar place, but also about feeling it with a heart and accompanying it with a love.
So, how can we better accompany our parents and make them feel our love?
When communicating with our parents, we are often in a hurry to express our thoughts and opinions, but ignore their feelings. But, you know what? In psychology, effective communication is more about listening than talking. So, when we go home, we might as well take the time to listen to our parents' stories and experiences so that they feel valued and understood.
Accompanying parents is not only about being with them, but also about caring for them in details. For example, when they tell you that they are unwell, don't rush to give a solution, but listen patiently to their feelings and give comfort and support. This kind of patient companionship will make parents feel warm and caring.
Parents are also constantly changing and growing over time. We often only notice their gray hair and wrinkles, but ignore the changes in their hearts. Therefore, when you return home, you may wish to carefully observe the changes in your parents and understand their new interests and needs, which will make your company more intimate.
When we spend time with our parents, we can create some wonderful memories together. For example, cooking together, watching the Spring Festival Gala together, traveling together, and so on. These small memories will become a precious treasure between us and our parents, and we will have a lot to remember for years to come.
Returning home for the Chinese New Year can create more memories with your parents.
While we want to take care of our parents as much as possible, we also respect their independence. Don't try to change their lifestyle and habits, but respect their choices. We can give them advice and support, but don't try to make decisions for them.
When we get along with our parents, don't ignore their loss, anxiety and confusion, and don't try to escape or change them, feel with your heart, give full support and encouragement, and let them know that we are always there for them, so as to achieve a more effective companionship effect.
Finally, we need to show our love for our parents through actions, such as helping them with household chores, walking with them, giving them gifts, etc. These small actions will make parents feel our love and care.
Dear readers, coming home for the Chinese New Year is a time for us to reunite with our parents and for us to express our love.
I hope that we can all feel the emotions and needs of our parents with our hearts, and express our love and care for them with actions.
Let's spend a warm and happy Spring Festival with love with our parents! Hotspot Engine Program
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