Written by Rouran.
A man will meet many women in this life, some are just hurried life passers-by, and some make him feel the grace and haze of first love;
Some left him with a heart-pounding glimpse, and some gave him the company of a long stream;
Others left him with indelible memories and an unforgettable relationship.
In fact, it is not the wives but the three women that men forget the most.
The writer Bi Shumin once said: "A good man and a good woman, in the days of common suffering, although they are two hearts, they have only one thought, and they move forward through thick and thin." ”
In the movie "Jackie Chan", Jin Shui, played by Stephen Chow, and Adi, played by Wu Junru, eloped to the big city of Hong Kong because of the woman's father's opposition to marriage.
Without sufficient funds, I could only rent a small partition house, and the wedding was just as simple and shabby, just buying a new blanket, buying a chicken, putting two pairs of red candles, and pasting the word "Xi", and the marriage was considered to be over.
Fortunately, Adi did not dislike and dissatisfied, the family was so poor that there was only a pair of intact chopsticks, and she also used the golden water, "You are in charge, of course you use it." ”
Later, Jin Shui was appreciated by the female boss for his own efforts, and began to grow rapidly, the house became bigger and bigger, and his life became more and more prosperous;
But the distance between him and Adi gradually drifted apart, and finally a quarrel broke out, causing Adi to leave sadly.
After Adi left, Jin Shui couldn't be happy, even if his career is successful now, he still can't forget Adi, who lived in a wooden house with him and smiled happily, and when he woke up, he took the initiative to recover his lover.
In a difficult situation, a woman who can never abandon a man and accompany him through difficult years is definitely the most special existence in a man's heart and can win their sincerity.
Su Cen said: "The most memorable thing in a man's life is not the woman he loves the most, but the woman he is most sorry for."
It's not worth it to use your bruises all over your body to exchange him for a thought he won't forget. ”
is like Meng Yun in "Predecessor Three", in the five years he has been with Lin Jia, he has been busy with entrepreneurship and work, and he is always working overtime when his girlfriend needs company the most.
Later, when Lin Jia was finally disappointed in this love and left, he would cry, hurt, and regret why he didn't know how to cherish until he really lost it, and found that she needed companionship and care.
So, Meng Yun met Wang Zi, who was very similar to Lin Jia, so he made up for all his debts to Lin Jia.
Even Wang Zi was aware of this, so on the night when Meng Yun sent her home, Wang Zi choked up and said to Meng Yun: "Uncle, let's go here, I always feel that I have picked up a big bargain;
Because it was Lin Jia who made you so good, sadly, the more you like me, the more you can't forget her, I'm thinking, your kindness to me is a kind of compensation for her. ”
She accompanied him through the days of nothing, endured loneliness and poverty, but failed to give her a bright future.
Plagued by guilt and self-blame, I can't afford to lose her calmly, and I want to make up for it, so it's unforgettable.
Anita Mui once sang in "It Seems to Be an Old Man": "If you don't get it, if you don't get it, if it's in the past, it's always the right thing." ”
The more you can't get something, the easier it is for people to remember, and you will unconsciously exaggerate the goodness of that person.
And in a long and bland marriage, a woman who is a wife cannot win completely against a woman who cannot be glorified by a man no matter what.
Because she can't get it, she may be the irreplaceable cinnabar mole in a man's heart, or his white moonlight, which always occupies a corner of a man's heart.
Zhang Xiaoxian said: "Even if there are regrets, they have passed. will also take pity on the people in front of you, and don't let what you have now become regrets in the future. ”
For men, no matter how memorable and reluctant the past is, they must learn to put her who can't be together in the deepest part of their hearts, and put the wife who accompanies them in front of them.
There is no need to be nostalgic for the past; People who are not yours don't need to worry about it. Only by living in the present and cherishing the present can we live up to love and the future.