Gift-giving should be targeted
Gifts should be targeted, that is to say, before giving gifts, we must first consider who the gift is for. You can understand and study each other from the aspects of speech, hobbies, temperament, room furnishings, economic situation, etc., and choose suitable gifts according to the other party's identity, status, and preferences. Few gifts are suitable for everyone, so treating everyone the same can be seen as insincere.
Understand the other person's preferences
Everyone's experience and hobbies are different, and their preferences for items are naturally different. Therefore, if you want to win the "heart" of the other party through gift-giving, you need to understand the other person's hobbies, choose the items that the other party loves, and vote for them. For example, give calligraphy lovers the four treasures of the study, give fishing gear or fishing rods to those who like fishing, and give a bottle of good wine to those who like to drink, so that the recipient can receive more happily.
Choose the right gift
When choosing a gift, take care to choose high-quality items at all times. If it is an item to be kept permanently, it is even more important to choose the *** one, so that the other party can keep it for a long time. In addition, gifts often need to be somewhat ornamental. If you find it difficult to choose, for most people, you can also choose some more commonly used gifts, such as decorative porcelain, chic teacups, etc.
It's a rhetoric that people can't refuse
Under normal circumstances, in order to give gifts to others, others always have to excuse or refuse how to politely block back the words of others who refuse to accept gifts, which is also an art. The most appropriate way to say it is to push the words of gift-giving to the lover who is not around or the other party's children and the elderly, such as "this is for the children and the elderly, and it has nothing to do with you", all of which are "taken back and will definitely be complained by the wife", which is quite humane, and the other party will be useful when they hear it, so they will naturally "make sense" to accept the gift.
Don't forget to say thank you afterwards
Some people beg people to do things, and once they find that they have an eyebrow about asking for help, they will put people aside, like strangers, and even worse, cross the river and tear down bridges, unload mills and kill donkeys, and turn their faces and deny people. As everyone knows, since others can do your good deeds, they may also harm your good deeds. Even if you pass the test this time, it will be even more difficult when you have other problems and want to ask the other party for help. Therefore, when asking someone to do something, even if you give a gift in advance, remember to thank the other person afterwards.
Micro cases
For the sake of business, Hu Xueyan often dealt with Yang Yongzhi, the master of the Huzhou prefect, and sought convenience from him, and they had a good relationship with each other.
Times, Hu Xueyan heard that Yang Yongzhi had taken in a new concubine. He knew that this was an opportunity to make a gesture of goodwill, so he prepared a pair of gold bracelets and put them on his body and went to visit.
After the two exchanged pleasantries, Hu Xueyan said: "The old master's complexion is wonderful!" Want the guests and hosts to be in tune? ”
Yang Yongzhi: "Then you need to say." I and Xue Mo (the prefect Wang Youling) are really like fish in water.
Yes, yes! In one's element. "Hu Xue" heard that the old master also has Yuyan said with a smile, the joy of water? ”
Yang Yongzhi laughed and called his new concubine Jinyun to come out and introduce it to Hu Xueyan.
At this point, Hu Xueyan took the opportunity to hand Yang Yongzhi "a little bit of wrapped gold bracelet" from his sleeve: Bo Li, add makeup to his sister-in-law! ”
Yang Yongzhi tried his best to refuse, but Hu Xueyan said: "If it is too thin, the old master will not accept it." Besides, this is for my sister-in-law's wife, and it has nothing to do with the old master.
Yang didn't shirk it anymore and stuffed the gold bracelet into his pocket.