"I don't know what to do, I always fall in love", everyone wants to marry the person they like, the person they love.
Many people say that if I don't meet someone I like, I'd rather not marry, of course I'm like this, I can't get married like this, I can't imagine what life will be like if I marry someone I don't love, will it be particularly bad, so bad that I don't want to see him, so bad that I don't want to go home, so bad that I feel so annoying every day!
But if you really don't meet someone you like, won't you really get married?
After a few years, you may face urging to get married, and still insist on marrying the person you love, but your parents say that when the time comes, you will see that other people's families are happy, your good friends will have a happy life, only you are alone, you look at other people's fireworks full of windows, but you are full of confusion about the future, and there is no home!
I told my parents that I don't get married, that I'm an unmarried, it's all a joke, of course I'm not an unmarried, I'm just afraid that I'll be unhappy. The premise of marriage is to love each other, and marriage is never the goal, but to really feel happy!
What I think is that after marrying the person you love, life will at least not be so boring, even if you live an ordinary life every day!
For example, when I was 30 years old, I could still talk to my loved ones about trivial things in life, and when I was old, I could go home hand in hand.
In the face of the person you love, what if you are plain, but if you don't love, who do you talk to, and when you see him, will you want to share it with him?
Two people who don't love each other together, maybe he will never take care of your emotions, maybe he will never tilt the umbrella for you, maybe all that awaits you when you go home is cold dishes and cold meals.
What's the point of such a life, although love can't be eaten, but in the face of someone you don't love, it's very uncomfortable to eat!
They say that love is different from marriage, you can find the person you love in love, but marriage is difficult, and it is difficult for two people who love each other to come together! Maybe regret is the main theme of life!
When you reach a certain age, you will compromise", I have a friend who is 21 years old this year, and her family urged her to get married, she said before, unless she marries the person I love, or I will not marry if I die, but she is still smoothed out by reality! Her parents kept pushing her, and she eventually relented and was engaged to marry someone she had only met a few times. Her parents are looking for it, the family conditions are good, there is a house and a car, and a bachelor's degree!
I thought, will I end up being smoothed out by life? Will I also marry someone I don't love? Can I really settle for this life?