Everyone thinks that the Chinese New Year is not a mirror of whether the marriage can last? Whether you are married well or not, as long as you look at the New Year, you can see it clearly.
Yes, where to go back for the New Year, how to go to relatives, what to do after you go, it's really a headache, especially for those friends who marry far away, when they return home, it's no longer as simple as buying a plane ticket.
Whether the husband and wife are sincerely accompanying each other, or making do with each other, during the Chinese New Year, this truth basically can't be hidden.
Just such a Spring Festival, you can see how your marriage is going.
If someone can do these things for you during the Chinese New Year, it can tell you that you have chosen the right husband.
1. Give you enough "respect" and discuss with you how to spend the Spring Festival.
I still remember the days when I was single, as long as I had a train ticket or plane ticket, I could go home for the New Year, with my dear parents, as well as my older brothers and sisters, and even a lot of relatives and friends.
We had Chinese New Year's Eve dinner together, watched the Spring Festival Gala program, played poker, sat around the fire and talked about it.
But after getting married, home suddenly becomes like a distant scenery, even if you have money, you can't buy the ticket for the return trip, even if you don't have money, you will be asked why you have to run around for the New Year, **Can't you spend the New Year?
Later, I learned that it is not just that I want to go home, and the hardest part is that I often can't help myself.
In many places, we usually choose to spend Chinese New Year's Eve and the first day of the new year at my mother-in-law's house, and then on the second or fourth day of the new year, my husband accompanies me and goes back to my mother's house for reunion.
However, there are also some people who come to a strange city away from home because they are in love with their other half, but they rarely go back once a year.
Those who don't love you may bind you with children, distance and other factors, and then these things become taken for granted, and they are even too troublesome to accompany you home for the New Year.
On the contrary, the people who really care about you will discuss with you the time to return to your ancestral hometown at the right time every year.
He will discuss with you what gifts to bring to your parents, how much to pack in red envelopes, how to show respect for your elders, and at the same time, not to lose etiquette.
When you get home, he will take the initiative to help you with all kinds of chores, including cooking and laundry, and accompanying your parents to talk and laugh together.
A man who can take good care of the relatives of both parties, in addition to being sophisticated and steady, and doing things in an orderly manner, also loves you deeply.
2. Pay attention to you meticulously and don't let you be wronged for no reason.
Even if we have entered the marriage hall, we still can't avoid encountering all kinds of problems.
For example, the elders urge us to have a child as soon as possible, and even want a second child, whether the child's school grades are good, or the in-laws look at you unpleasantly and deliberately embarrass you, making you feel annoyed.
The husband who understands your inner grievances will praise you appropriately in front of outsiders and answer questions that you are embarrassed to answer.
For those who make fun of you, he will stand up and protect you from injury and not make you sad.
He will not pretend not to hear, nor will he deliberately turn a blind eye, let alone favor his relatives.
Instead, he'll pay attention to you at the right time, and he'll notice your confused expression, your pretended smile, and your reluctance to speak, and will inadvertently help you change the subject and make you feel relaxed.
3. Whether the marriage can last can be known by looking at the scene during the New Year.
If you say that during the New Year, which family you go back to for the New Year, you can see the current situation of marriage; Whether the preparation of the New Year's gift is perfect can reflect the temperature of the marriage, and whether that person really cares about you or not, in fact, you can understand it during the New Year.
At the end of the day, Chinese New Year isn't just about the holidays, it's really about seeing if your significant other can do it when everyone gets together.
He should be reckless in his ability to demonstrate all-round competence in the here and now and in his interpersonal interactions.
During the Chinese New Year, although we can't make judgments immediately, we can understand the quality of the relationship between husband and wife.
February**Dynamic Incentive Plan The couple was originally a piece of the puzzle, they formed a new family, while managing family affairs, while thanking everyone for their efforts, and remembering each other's father and mother's nurturing grace.
However, in terms of the principle of honoring the elderly, in line with the age, husband and wife are concentric, holding hands, and coping with the ups and downs of life together.
As an elder once said, marriage should not be a petty fight, and husbands and wives should not compete with each other.
Only when both parties understand and tolerate each other can they truly know how to cherish feelings and treat them as treasures.