With the progress and development of society, every family pays more and more attention to the growth and education of their children. However, in real life, some children are deprived of their independent growth for various reasons, and the risk of mental health is quietly rising. Zhishan psychological experts said that this not only affects the physical and mental health of children, but also affects the harmony and stability of family and society.
First of all, we need to understand the importance of independent growth. Children can develop a sense of responsibility and self-confidence by doing things independently, such as tidying up their own room, managing their own time, and completing homework independently. At the same time, these experiences will help them better understand themselves and others, and develop the right values and outlook on life. This independent growth process also helps to develop children's autonomy and self-management skills, which are key factors for their future success and well-being.
However, in some families, parents are overprotective and interfering in their children's development, depriving them of the opportunity to grow independently. They are worried that their child will get hurt, fail, or make mistakes, so they are always there to give guidance and help. While this approach protects children to some extent, it deprives them of the opportunity to grow and prevent them from learning from failures and mistakes, and from developing the necessary self-management and self-healing skills. In the long run, these children may become timid, dependent, and lack self-confidence and responsibility.
Secondly, mental health risks are also issues that cannot be ignored. Excessive protection and intervention may lead to anxiety, depression and other psychological problems in children. They may feel unable to be independent and unable to cope with life's challenges, creating feelings of helplessness and loss. If these emotions are not given timely attention and guidance, they can further develop into long-term mental health problems. In addition, children who lack independence are also more likely to have interpersonal problems, such as social anxiety, lack of social skills, etc.
It is equally important for families to pay attention to their children's mental health. Parents should give their children the necessary support and encouragement to learn to face difficulties and setbacks. At the same time, parents should also encourage their children to try new things and accept challenges, so that they can learn and grow through practice. This not only fosters a child's self-confidence and sense of responsibility, but also reduces their mental health risks.
Society should also take responsibility for it. Policies can be introduced to provide guidance and advice to parents to help them better develop their children's independence and self-management skills. At the same time, schools and social organizations can also provide opportunities and platforms for children to learn and grow in practice. These measures can not only improve the mental health of children, but also promote the harmony and stability of the whole society.
In conclusion, the deprivation of independent growth of children is a matter of concern. Zhishan psychologists say mental health risks are quietly rising, and we need to take proactive measures to deal with them. Only through the joint efforts of families, schools and all parties in society can we help children grow up healthily and lay a solid foundation for their future.