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Preface. The girl who is in the flower season should have the most beautiful youth,And the girl who is as beautiful as a flower in ** isForever missed the twenty-eight years she should have had.
* The girl in the * is Zhou Yan, who was disfigured by pouring gasoline 13 years ago because she refused to pursue the pursuit of the "second generation of officials".When he was 16 years old, it was a day that Zhou Yan still doesn't want to recall.
Until 2016, he was 21 years old in the "Time Edge" programZhou Yancai finally mustered up the courage to reveal to the world what she had experienced during that time.
So, what happened back then, and now that more than ten years have passed, what has become of Zhou Yan's life?
If you don't get it, you destroy it.
Time back to 2011, Zhou Yan, who has been promoted to junior high school, has a cute and pleasing appearanceIt's a well-known school flower in the school.,There are many suitors.。
And among the many suitors, there is one who is very famous in school"Second generation official" Tao Rukun,He is different from other suitorsHe was very generous to Zhou Yan.
Therefore, there are also rumors in the school that Tao Rukun's family is very rich, and his parents are both big officialsIn the school, it is also "calling for wind and rain".
In fact, Tao Rukun's family background is really goodHis father worked in the Hefei Municipal Audit Bureau, and his mother also worked in the Hefei Municipal Planning Department.
Therefore, since he was a child, Tao Rukun wanted something, and his parents would try their best to satisfy him, and Tao Rukun also formed an extreme way of thinkingThat's what he likes, and he has to get his hands on it.
This can be seen from his usual behavior, because he was attracted by Zhou Yan's appearanceTao Rukun also wrote many love letters to Zhou Yan.
But obviously, for such a "thorny" student, of course Zhou Yan did not agree, so Tao Rukun began to pursue it franticallySticking to Zhou Yan like a dog skin plaster.
At that time, Tao Rukun and Zhou Yan were not in the same class, but Tao Rukun would go to Zhou Yan's class to look for her many times almost every daywill wait for her on Zhou Yan's way home.
And this is also the most unacceptable thing for Zhou Yan, which can be seen from the love letter written by Tao RukunHe is a man who will do whatever it takes to get what he wants.
So Zhou Yan never agreed to Tao Rukun's confessionThis also completely angered Tao Rukun,So one day in September 2011, Tao Rukun found Zhou Yan, who was cooking with his aunt.
At that time, Zhou Yan's aunt thought that she was just an ordinary classmate, so she didn't take it to heart, and Zhou Yan himself didn't expect that Tao Rukun had gone crazyI still want to send him away in three or two sentences.
No one expected that when Zhou Yan hadn't opened his mouth yetTao Rukun suddenly took out a bottle of unknown liquid and splashed it on Zhou Yan's face.
Zhou Yan was taken aback by Tao Rukun's sudden move, and stood stunned for a secondI smelled a strong smell of gasoline.
Because all this came so fast, Zhou Yan didn't even open his eyes, and only heard the sound of a lighter coming from the opposite sideThen the flames instantly ignited the liquid and spread to Zhou Yan's whole body.
The burning pain soon came, Zhou Yan immediately screamed, and reflexively lay on the ground and rolled, but to no avail, the aunt in the house heard the sound and hurried outI was also stunned by the scene in front of me.
Looking at Tao Rukun again, he has already escaped without a traceZhou Yan has become a burning man who keeps rolling and screaming on the groundThe aunt immediately used the wet water of the quilt at home to extinguish Zhou Yan's flames, and immediately dialed 120.
On the way to the hospital, Zhou Yan had already lost consciousness, although the flames on his body had been extinguishedBut the whole person was also burned beyond recognition by the fire.
Even the doctors, who often see burn patients, couldn't help but break out in a cold sweat when they saw Zhou Yan at this timebluntly said that I have never been to a patient with such severe burns.
In the Affiliated Hospital of Anhui Medical University, the doctor rescued Zhou Yan for seven days and seven nights before finally saving Zhou Yan's lifeBut the scars of burns can never be erased.
Finally, after examination, Zhou Yan's left ear was burned, and the neck and face burns were the most serious partsThe area of burns all over the body reached 28%.All five fingers were glued together from the burns.
Although his life was saved, Zhou Yan's suffering had just begun.
The ruined flower season girl.
This incident had a very bad impact at the timeIn 2012, Zhou Yan's parents posted two articles on the Internet asking for help, which aroused widespread attention from netizens.
While sympathizing with Zhou Yan's suffering, people also strongly demanded that the culprit Tao Rukun be punished, but because Tao Rukun was still a minor at that timeThe outcome of the lawsuit has also been elusive.
A reporter contacted Tao Rukun's parents, and said that they would be responsible for Zhou Yan through Tao Rukun's fatherAnd will take the initiative to bear Zhou Yan's follow-up costs.
But this is also a premise, Tao Rukun's father saidZhou Yan must issue a "letter of understanding" to Tao Rukun before they will continue to be responsible for Zhou Yan.
Of course, Zhou Yan's family could not accept such a request, so the negotiation between the two families finally failedAfter that, Tao Rukun's parents immediately stopped paying ** fees to the hospital.
You must know that Zhou Yan's parents are just ordinary farmers, and their family conditions are very ordinary, and they can afford such a high costIn the end, Zhou Yan was discharged from the hospital as a last resort.
Many people are worried that being discharged from the hospital too early will definitely affect Zhou Yan's recovery, but in fact, when he just woke up in the hospital, Zhou Yan didn't care about these anymoreBecause she has had suicidal thoughts more than once.
Later in the program "Time Edge",Zhou Yan also told his mental journey during his time in the hospitalWhen I first regained consciousness, I was about to go crazy with pain, and even the simple action of opening my mouth became a luxury.
And the life after being discharged from the hospital was indeed unbearable for Zhou Yan, due to the burning of **Usually, even when sleeping, Zhou Yan has to use a special posture to ensure that his neck and shoulders are not adhered together.
At that timeFor Zhou Yan, eating, washing his face, and going to the toilet have become huge problemsDue to the deformation of his fingers, Zhou Yan couldn't even pick up the chopsticks.
Compared with the physical disability, what is more heart-wrenching is Zhou Yan's psychological condition, because of the body burns, Zhou Yan has changed from a cheerful girlHe became reticent and depressed.
During the recovery period, for three years, Zhou Yan closed himself in the house and did not dare to go outBecause she thinks she's like a monster.
Yes, for every girl, her face is her own life, and she has changed from a beautiful face to a "monster" that everyone is afraid of overnightFor Zhou Yan, isn't this considered despair?
Seeing their flower-like daughter fall into such despair, Zhou Yan's parents vowed to seek justice for their daughterSo in 2012, Zhou's parents sued Tao Rukun in court.
After the court's appraisal, Tao Rukun has constituted the crime of intentional injury to Zhou Yan, and the circumstances are seriousZhou Yan has already constituted serious injuries.
Since both were minors, the court held a 9-hour closed hearing to protect the plaintiff and defendantTao Rukun was finally sentenced to 12 years and 1 month in prison.
Not only that, but for the civil compensation proposed by Zhou Yan's family,The court also ordered Tao Rukun to pay 1.72 million yuan in compensationIt is borne by Tao Rukun's guardian.
For such a trial result, the people of the Zhou family felt that it was still unacceptable, and continued to appeal, and finally in 2016The second instance increased the compensation to 1.8 million yuan, and the rest of the trial remained unchanged.
Although many people say that 1.8 million is already a lot of compensation,But do these really matter for a girl?
Not to mentionZhou Yan's situation alone requires millionsThe scars in my heart alone are hard to heal.
In the show, Zhou Yan said that if "coming out" is the minimum standard of life, then now she can be regarded as meeting this standardBut what others can easily have, such as love or work, is out of her reach.
Zhou Yan's parents were afraid that their daughter would completely close herself off like this, but they didn't have a better wayFortunately, there are still many well-meaning people who have helped Zhou Yan get out of the haze.
Wait for the flowers to bloom at the end of the day.
In the past 5 years, Zhou Yan once again appeared in the public's field of vision through social platforms, and Zhou Yan updated a dynamic on his account, which is a photo of Zhou Yan himself, with a text"Shhhh ”
It can be seen in the ** that although Zhou Yan still has burn scars on his face, butShe could already see the light of life in her eyes.
In fact, at the beginning, Zhou Yan's mental condition has not been very good, after all, such an encounter has made Zhou Yan have the idea of suicideIt's easier said than done.
Fortunately, Zhou Yan's mother contacted a painting volunteer on the InternetThis volunteer would bring some paints and drawing boards for Zhou Yan every time, and teach Zhou Yan to paint.
With a period of contact,Zhou Yan also gradually fell in love with paintingIn the depths of her heart, the cheerful and lively self that once loved life was slowly awakened.
Later, some friends took Zhou Yan to sell cosmetics together, although he was always busy until late at the beginning, and his income was pitifulBut at least Zhou Yan can support himself.
This also made Zhou Yan's mother feel very relieved, after all, they knew that they could not take care of their daughter for the rest of their livesZhou Yan ultimately has to live on his own.
And when it comes to life, it is natural that there is a longing for love, and such a disaster happens to youPerhaps love has long been a luxury for Zhou Yan.
But Zhou Yan strongly stated in the show that he was not dead set on loveWhen she was a child, what she longed for most was what she would look like when she wore her wedding dress.
"I still look forward to meeting the right person, falling in love with him, getting married, and the thing I looked forward to the most when I was a child was the moment I put on my wedding dress. Even if such an opportunity is slim, even if I am an imperfect bride, I will fight for such an opportunity. ”It can also be seen from the expectation of love,Now Zhou Yan has completely reconciled with himselfI no longer expect to be able to return to the way I was before.
Zhou Yan was the busiest during that timeEvery day, I have to do *** and then process the orders for cosmetics, and I also have to find time to practice drawing.
Of course, Zhou Yan didn't put down the cultural classIn Zhou Yan's heart, he is still very eager for college lifeI also want to be able to study psychology.
To summarize in Zhou Yan's own words,This disaster made her mature by 10 years at onceIn 2022, Zhou Yan posted a long article on his Weibo account, titled "2015-2022 Summary".
In the article, Zhou Yan said goodbye to her 16-year-old self, and she took the self-examination to retake her undergraduateAnd chose psychology as I wished, using my experience and knowledge to help more people like myself ten years ago.
At the end of the article, Zhou Yan wrote:"In the next ten years, I hope to live up to expectations, and I hope that the love you have given me can continue to be passed on by me this time."
I believe that after Zhou Yan comes out of the haze, his future life will be infinitely brightLooking forward to the next ten years, Zhou Yan will be able to help more people as he wishes.
Epilogue. The hospital failed to heal the scars on Zhou Yan's face, but Zhou Yan himself healed the scars in his heartThis is even more remarkable than that.
Now Zhou Yan is no longer the weak girlAfter being reborn from the ashes, Zhou Yan also became stronger, not only able to protect himself, but also to help others.