What is a polite word?
A polite word is something that makes people happy to listen to.
Politeness contains politeness, humility, showing respect for others everywhere, and politeness also shows your peace and restraint.
When people are polite say something, people like to listen to it, and they are willing to listen to it, and others will accept it gladly.
People who are not polite often face a lot of embarrassment, causing a lot of misunderstandings and interpersonal barriers. Leads to the deterioration of one's own relationships.
Politeness is one of the language arts. We tend to say when educating our children, "".If you see an adult, you have to say hello, if you borrow a classmate's eraser, you have to say thank you, and if you accidentally bump into someone, you have to say sorry." This is the most basic polite education.
Once, Ms. Zhang went to see her good friend who was seriously ill, and when she saw that the other party was in great pain, she didn't say a word. She didn't speak because she had a lot of concerns at the time, and she couldn't express her feelings if she was polite. Don't speak, and is considered a cold bystander, he is too introverted.
This kind of "introversion" is much more honest than the practice of hypocrisy and sweet-mouthedness. However, because he cannot fully express his heart, everything is equal to zero in the eyes of others. If a person does not even say the most ordinary polite words, when visiting a sick person, he will not even say a word"Are you alright?"I can't say it, this kind of person will give people a cold feeling.
Therefore, in life, you must learn to speak politely and express your emotions in your own words, such as:"Are you alright?"In this sentence, you are not just saying the literal meaning to the other person, in this, you can add your true feelings, such as"Is there anything I can help you with? "I'm very sad to see you uncomfortable! "Are you alright?"After that, let's go bowling together. ”This is more conducive to promoting relations between them.
Politeness is not to whisper, it is respect, politeness is not hypocrisy, it is politeness. Life and work, everything needs language as a link.
People want clothes, Buddha wants gold, and language also depends on packaging. The charm of language lies in making people happy and convincing, and the use of language lies in self-cultivation.
Some people say that there are many politenesses and many friends; More friends, more good things;
This sentence is not false at all, because politeness and greetings can help you meet a lot of friends, shorten the distance between people, and thus promote the relationship between the two.
In life, we tend to hear things like".Thank you", "Thank you for your attention", "Thank you for your hard work".Please, something like that.
Such polite words can express gratitude to others, communicate with people's hearts, and establish harmonious interpersonal relationships.
After asking someone to do something, you should say it sincerely"Thank you". If you don't say a word"Thank you". If you only bury your gratitude in your heart, the other party will have a feeling of unhappiness that his work has not been recognized, or that you do not know how to be polite and will not help you again in the future.
In the same way, you can speak up sincerely when you disturb others and cause trouble to others"I'm sorry,The other party's anger will be reduced by half.
Therefore, in the process of interpersonal communication and asking people to do things, we must not ignore the role of politeness.
Politeness must be natural, sincere, heartfelt, and artistic.
Xiao Zhang is a waiter in a big hotel in Shanghai. Mr. Meng, a famous Chinese-American dancer, visited the hotel for the first time, and Xiao Zhang greeted him with a smile"Hello! We look forward to welcoming you to our hotel. ”The second time he came to the store, Xiao Zhang recognized him and said while saluting"Mr. Meng, welcome to come again, our manager has an arrangement, please go upstairs. ”He then accompanied Mr. Meng upstairs. After a few days, when Mr. Meng stepped into the hotel for the third time, Xiao Zhang blurted out:"Welcome again. ”Mr. Meng was very happy to praise Xiao Wang:"Not rigid, not standardized".
The reason why Xiao Zhang is so praised is that he is not a parrot, he can only speak"Welcome"., and can use different methods according to the changes in the communicative situation, showing his love for work and the art of speaking.
In interpersonal communication, in order to make others do something to you, you must first learn how to treat others. To be polite, it seems ordinary, but it can cause benign interaction between people and become a communication. Enabler of success.
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