In interpersonal interactions, we often hear the phrase: "Generosity is a concession, a kind of thoughtfulness, a kind of kindness to care for others, and a kind of informality." Generosity alone is not enough. If you don't get this balance right, you may be treated or hurt badly by others, and you may feel worried or exhausted yourself. Therefore, we need to exercise moderation when dealing with others and avoid blindly giving up enthusiasm and kindness.
Generosity towards others is a very valuable quality in interpersonal interactions. This means being able to understand and tolerate the perspectives, feelings, and needs of others, and being willing to make some compromises and sacrifices to maintain a good relationship. This generosity not only helps to build trust and respect for each other, but it also makes us more welcoming and respected in social situations.
However, generosity to others also requires a certain approach. Being too generous can put you in a negative situation and make you feel hurt or even helpless. Therefore, it is necessary to pay attention to the principle of moderation when interacting with people, not only to show generosity, but also to protect one's own interests and dignity.
First of all, being generous to others doesn't mean you have to sacrifice your own interests or abandon your values to accommodate others. When dealing with others, we should always be independent and avoid being easily swayed by their words and actions. If some of your actions or remarks are not in line with your values, you should carefully consider making compromises in order to maintain the relationship.
Second, while we are generous to others, we should also pay attention to our own inner needs and feelings. In interpersonal communication, we should always maintain an attitude of self-awareness and self-reflection, understand our inner needs and feelings, and have the courage to express our opinions and ideas. When we react too much to others and ignore our own feelings and needs, we often become depressed and unhappy.
Finally, while we are generous to others, we should also be mindful of protecting our rights and dignity. In interpersonal relationships, you should always have a sense of protecting yourself and avoid being easily swayed by the words and deeds of others. When our actions and words violate our own rights and dignity, we must carefully consider whether to compromise, even to maintain relationships.
So how do we treat others right?
First and foremost, we need to treat others with the right amount of enthusiasm. Too much enthusiasm can make people feel uncomfortable and uncomfortable, and too much enthusiasm can make people feel neglected or abandoned. Therefore, we should treat others with appropriate warmth, showing kindness and care, but at the same time maintaining a certain distance and independence.
Second, while we pay proper attention to others, we also need to pay attention to our own inner needs and feelings. In interpersonal communication, we should always maintain an attitude of self-awareness and self-reflection, understand our inner needs and feelings, and have the courage to express our opinions and ideas. At the same time, we must respect the opinions and feelings of others and give them appropriate consideration and response.
Finally, we need to show kindness and generosity appropriately. In relationships, always maintain a generous and tolerant attitude, and be willing to make some compromises and sacrifices, in order to maintain a good relationship. However, you should also appreciate this dedication. We cannot blindly give or ignore our own interests and needs. Therefore, in showing goodwill and tolerance, it is necessary to pay attention to the principle of moderation, both to show generosity and to protect one's own interests and dignity.
In interpersonal communication, it is necessary to pay attention to the principle of moderation, not too hot and not too cold. We need to treat those around us with the right amount of warmth, care and dedication, while also focusing on self-protection and self-fulfillment. Being able to treat others appropriately not only promotes the development of interpersonal relationships, but also makes you more confident, calm, and strong.