Every night, I walk on the playground of the community. It became the most relaxing time of the day for me to enjoy the coolness of the night quietlyTranquility。For me, this habit has become a kind of spiritual sustenance. Walking on the playground, watching the moonlight on the ground, listening to the sound of the breeze in my ears, I seemed to feel my father's figure in the moonlight, he was always alone and quietly staring into the distance. Perhaps, every father has that heart that is both longing and determined.
Amplification: The playground is where I relax every day, no matter whatWeatherHow, I always keep this desire. The playground at night, the fresh air and the quiet environment made me feelTranquility。Walking on the playground, I can savor the beauty of the night to the fullest. The moonlight sprinkled on the ground to form silvery-white beams of light, adding a mysterious atmosphere to the entire playground. The breeze swept past my ears, bringing a hint of coolness and floral scent. When I close my eyes, I can really feel the presence of my father, who seems to be beside me in the moonlight, watching me grow up.
This year's Chinese New Year will be a special occasion, and as is customary in previous years, my son Xiaotao should fly back to reunite with our family. For this important day, my wife and I started preparing early, and the house was full of souvenirs and small gifts for him. However, this year I suddenly changed my mind and decided not to let Xiao Tao go home for the New Year. His voice was full of confusion and concern, and his voice was a little dry, but I knew that this was my advice to him, a heart-wrenching but very realistic decision. Chinese New Year is very important for everyone, but as a father, I want to give my child more space and opportunities to develop, he has his own life, and we should know how to let go.
Expanding: I stood in front of the window, quietly looking at the scenery outside, and my heart was full of thoughts. My son Xiaotao's voice came from the **, and he asked me if I really didn't need him to go home for the New Year. His voice was full of confusion and concern, he was homesick and wanted to spend this important moment with us. I tried to explain to him the reason for this decision, and I said son, you are busy with work over there, and you don't need to come back for the Chinese New Year. I told him that this was also a joint decision between me and your mother, and we felt that we were too old to delay your big event for the New Year. On the other hand, Xiao Tao fell silent, he needed time to digest the decision. I know that this decision will not be easy for him to accept, but as parents, we hope to give him more freedom and space so that he can have more opportunities to pursue his dreams.
My wife was very incomprehensible about my sudden decision not to let my children go home for the Chinese New Year, and she expressed her disbelief that I did not miss my children, and thought that I was trying to cover up. She said angrily, "You don't want him at all? "I tried to get her to understand and I said that our son has grown up and he has a life of his own and we should give him more space. But my wife is still stubborn, she can't understand my thoughts, the sacrifices behind my decisions andLoveI can't quite tell.
Expanding: I was a little sad by my wife's incomprehension, and she firmly believed that I was perfunctory and disguised, thinking that I didn't miss my children at all. The anger and frustration she expressed made me feel helpless, and I tried my best to explain the meaning behind the decision. I told her that our son is an adult, he has a life of his own, and he needs us to give him more freedom and space. As parents, we must learn to let go so that our children have more opportunities to explore their lives and dreams. However, my wife insisted on her point of view, and she could not understand the sacrifices I had madeLove
On the evening of the Chinese New Year's Eve, there were only three people's dishes and chopsticks on the dinner table. My wife's eyes were red, and I knew she was feeling the pain of her decision. After the meal, the wife sat on the sofa and watchedSpring Festival Gala, while I went for a walk in the playground as usual. The moonlight shines on every corner of the playground, adding a peaceful atmosphere to the whole environment. As I was walking, I suddenly heard my daughter's voice next to me. It turned out that she also stayed at home to accompany us. She asked me why I didn't let my brother come home for the New Year, and I explained my thoughts. Her eyes were full of distressEmotionShe said, "Dad, did you not let my brother come back because you felt that the house was crowded?" I was amazed by her acuity, and I nodded in the affirmative. DaughterHold my handWe walked side by side on the playground. The wind was still biting, and my heart was starting to feel cold. I began to wonder if I had made the right decision and whether I had deprived my son of the right to come home.
Expanding: On the night of the Chinese New Year's Eve, we only set the dishes and chopsticks of three people, and my wife's eyes were red, and her heart was also touched by this decision. After dinner, my wife sat on the sofa and watchedSpring Festival GalaWith tea, I still went for a walk in the playground as usual. As I stood on the playground, I could feel my father standing beside me, who had always taught me to be independent and responsible. Suddenly, my daughter's voice came from the side, and she walked up to me and asked me why I didn't let my brother come back for the New Year. I explained my thoughts, but her eyes revealed her worry and distress. She asked me if I didn't let my brother come back because I felt the house was crowded, and I nodded in the affirmative. Daughter tightlyHold my handWe walked side by side on the playground, the cold wind was biting, and I began to have doubts about my decision, and I began to wonder if my son was correctly deprived of the right to go home. I suddenly felt the chill in my heart quickly melt and be replaced by a warm surge. Perhaps, I should reconsider this decision and give my son a chance to come home and let him feel the warmth of home.
When I got home, I decided to rethink my decision. I called my son and told him that I had changed my mind and hoped that he would come home for the Chinese New Year. **On the other end, I heard my son's excited voice, he said that he had already prepared the ticket, but he was too embarrassed to offer it. I felt guilty that I didn't really listen to his heart and didn't give him enough freedom and choice. This year, I decided to give my son an important gift, and that was the opportunity to return home and be reunited.
Expanding: When I got home, I decided to rethink my decision with the thoughts and guilt in my heart. I picked up the ** and called my son and told him that I had changed my mind and hoped that he would come home for the New Year. On the other end, his son's excited voice came from him, saying that he had already prepared the ticket, but he was too embarrassed to offer it. Hearing this, I felt a deep sense of guilt that I didn't really listen to his heart and didn't give him enough freedom and choice. This year, I decided to give my son an important gift, and that was the opportunity to return home and be reunited. I believe that this decision will make our family more united and happy. And for my wife, she will be ecstatic for our reunion, she will let go of her inner resentment and feel satisfied again for our reunion.