An 8-year-old deep relationship, but it fell apart because of the bride price issue, and the game between love and money is embarrassing. In this material society, is there still that pure and sincere love that is not swayed by money? On February 4, an emotional entanglement about Ningbo, Zhejiang Province sparked heated discussions. Xiao Zhang's 8-year relationship with her northern boyfriend was originally a beautiful love in a university in Hangzhou, and the two have been working together after graduation, but the threshold of marriage has made this relationship fall into the quagmire because of the bride price.
The couple works in Hangzhou, and their relationship has been developing steadily, and they have known each other for 8 years. During this period, the two grew up in work and life, and experienced many ups and downs together. When the door of marriage was about to open, it ushered in sudden twists and turns.
When the news broke, Xiao Zhang's parents put forward a bride price request, up to 1880,000 yuan. This sudden amount is staggering and has become a stumbling block for communication between the two families. Xiao Zhang's parents hope that the man will not only be able to pay 1880,000 yuan, but also to express the sincerity to the woman, proposed to increase the wedding fee to 2880,000 yuan, and an additional car.
And the pressure on her boyfriend is also not small, because she has spent all her savings for the marriage room before. In this case, asking for a bride price of nearly 200,000 yuan is undoubtedly worse for the boyfriend and his family. The boyfriend pleads with his girlfriend and her parents in embarrassment, hoping to be understanding and considerate.
The two sides reached an impasse in the negotiation process and finally ended in displeasure. This 8-year relationship finally fell apart under the test of money. This money-induced breakup makes people lament the complex relationship between feelings and materiality.
There is an increasing urgency for society to reflect on the issue of bride price. The traditional custom of bride price, originally intended to express respect and gratitude to the woman's family, has now evolved into a heavy burden in some cases, affecting the free development of love. And this incident has once again triggered the society to think about whether the bride price custom should be reformed.
Although the relationship ends in a breakup, the meaning of love and marriage is still worth going deeper**. In this rapidly changing society, does pure love still exist? Is money ruining the relationship, or has the nature of the relationship been tested by reality?
Perhaps, this is not only the experience of a couple, but also a contest between love and reality in the social background. In thinking about the concept of love, we may be able to find more answers about happiness and cherishment.
In this noisy society, we can't help but ask, how should we look at and treat marriage and love? In the interweaving of money and feelings, how should we choose?
The lessons of this relationship may be a valuable experience for us to deal with future love. sighing at the passing of this relationship, I hope everyone can find their own happiness in the fog of love. We may learn from the ups and downs of this relationship the true meaning of cherishing, tolerance and understanding.
In the face of real marriage, money is undoubtedly a huge obstacle, and it is also a touchstone to test the depth of feelings again and again. We must also see that rationality and communication are also indispensable in the pursuit of love. The failure of this relationship may be due to the lack of communication between the two parties on the issue of money, and the failure of each other to find a solution that is both in line with the reality and can maintain the innocence of the relationship.
Money is part of reality, but it shouldn't be the only yardstick by which feelings are measured. In this rapidly changing society, we need more understanding, respect, and empathy. Perhaps, we can abandon the traditional concept of marriage, break the shackles of money, and pursue more spiritual harmony, so as to find true happiness in the complicated world.
For this relationship, the end is not the same as failure, maybe for a better start. Everyone's life trajectory is different, each.
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