Recently, a couple has been on a hot search because of the bride price issue.
This year's 29-year-old Xiao Zhang is a girl from Ningbo, Zhejiang, and her boyfriend Xiao Wu is a northern man.
The two almost never quarreled when they were in love, and their relationship was very stable and good.
However, when talking about marriage, the "old and difficult" bride price issue once again detonated the contradiction and became the fuse for the breakup.
In this regard, the two young people felt very aggrieved.
The woman Xiao Zhang believes that 18The bride price of 80,000 yuan is actually not a lot in the local area.
And her parents also made a promise that they would contribute another 100,000 yuan dowry to the prospective couple for future small family expenses.
But the man thinks that his parents have paid enough. They have contributed to:
Down payment, wedding planning, purchase of three golds, and house renovation, etc.
The economic conditions of the man's family are average, and the ones who should be out are almost out, 1880,000 is really difficult for him.
It's really a pity that the two have gone through 8 years together, but they fell on the issue of bride price in the final link.
Is this the fact that feelings have finally lost to reality?
Love is romantic, marriage is realistic.
Marriage cannot be full of love and water, but needs bread as a foundation.
For this matter, there was also a lot of noise on the Internet.
Female netizens generally believe that the woman's request is not too much, and the man is too picky;
Male netizens questioned that if the bride price is a guarantee for women, then what is the guarantee for men?
Some people even complained about the woman's parents, and the bride price was clearly marked at 1880,000, is it selling your daughter?
It is said that it is difficult for a clean official to judge family affairs, and it may be difficult to distinguish right from wrong for a while.
In fact, Tan Gongzi stands from a woman's point of view and feels that what the woman wants is an attitude and a sense of security from the man.
As for the man, he thinks that he has already paid a lot, and it is indeed difficult to come up with nearly 200,000 cash.
estimated that the man did not want to take out an online loan because of the bride price.
In recent years, the problem of "sky-high bride price" has been frequently criticized.
It is mainly a marriage and love game between men and women, the woman wants more, and the man is unwilling to pay too much.
This leads to an imbalance in the relationship, which then allows the man and woman to eventually part ways.
In fact, as a tradition rooted in folklore, there is no original sin in the bride price.
What is wrong is that some people use the bride price as a tool to collect money and a bargaining chip to blackmail others into getting married.
For a long time, the public's call for "lightening the burden" of love has been increasing.
Marriage is about two people living their lives, not letting the bride price become a reason for moral kidnapping.
Let marriage begin with love, and let the bride price return to the ceremony.
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