Whether parents treat their children really is an important factor that affects their children's filial piety in the future. Some parents focus too much on providing material conditions and neglect to communicate emotionally with their children. They tend to see themselves simply as their child's financial ** and ignore the importance of building trust and closeness. The unhealthy nature of this model of family relationships leads to a lack of closeness to their parents when children grow up, reducing their filial piety. One example is that I have a relative at home who is always silent with his family after work every day and only cares about himselfRecreational activities。This makes there is a lack of closeness between the child and him, a lack of opportunities for communication. Because people are emotional creatures, parents are able to keep their children company and communicate with them from a young age, and children will express the same companionship and closeness to their parents when they grow up.
It is worth mentioning that the companionship of parents is more than just time of companionshipLengthand more importantly, whether you can give your child real care and concern. Parents can participate in various activities with their children, such as cooking together, watching movies, playing games, etc., so that children can feel the warmth and happiness of the family. In the process of accompaniment, parents should listen to their children's voices and understand their needs and confusions. Through communication with their children, parents can better understand their children's inner world and build trust and intimacy with each other. In this way, children will also be grateful when they grow up and will be more willing to be filial to their parents.
Children often face various problems when they grow up, such as school bullying, love problems, academic pressure, etc. Whether parents can effectively help their children solve these problems also has an important impact on their children's filial piety. Some parents adopt a side-by-and-see attitude when their children face problems, do not care and do not guide, and make their children feel helpless and isolated. This kind of indifferent attitude will make children lose trust in their parents and reduce their willingness to be filial. For example, a friend of mine had a dispute with a teacher at school, and the matter became serious, but my friend did not realize the seriousness of the problem and did not take the initiative to intervene in mediation, causing the child to feel scared and helpless. This will affect the status of parents in the hearts of their children. Therefore, in the process of children's growth, if parents can pay attention to their children's problems in a timely manner and give appropriate guidance and support, children will feel at ease and trust, and will be more willing to be filial to their parents.
Parents' attitude towards their children is also a key factor affecting their children's filial piety in the future. Some parents think that their children are small and do not need to be kind to them, and even scold and reprimand their children. However, the psychology of children and adolescents is relatively fragile, and parents can pay attention to their own attitudes when educating and guiding their children, which will be more conducive to their children's development. For example, I have witnessed many times in public when parents yelling at their children, which made them feel stressed and unable to get warm emotions. Although parents may think that their children are small and do not need to be respected, they just need to eat and drink well, but such an experience will leave a deep mark on the child's memory. Therefore, the attitude of parents towards their children is crucial as they grow up. If parents are able to treat their children well and respect their dignity, children will be grateful to their parents and more willing to be filial to them.
To sum up, the degree of filial piety when children grow up is closely related to the attitude of parents to deal with three things in the process of children's growth. Only when parents can truly accompany their children, effectively solve their children's problems, and respect their children's attitudes can they establish a sense of trust and closeness between parents and children, and cultivate the quality of filial piety. Therefore, as parents, we should be aware of our influence on our children, strive to improve our attitudes and behaviors, provide a good environment for our children's growth, and also look forward to their filial piety to us in the future and enjoy a happy family togetherlife