From the well-known theory of "impossible triangle" in economics, we look at marriage, investment, men, and women.
Impossible trinity: It refers to the fact that the choice of economic, social, fiscal and financial policy objectives faces many difficulties, and it is difficult to obtain three goals at the same time. In terms of monetary policy, it is impossible to achieve the free flow of capital, fixed exchange rate and monetary policy independence, such as the free flow of capital and monetary policy independence in Chinese mainland, and the free flow of capital and fixed exchange rate in Hong Kong, China.
Marriage: I believe that most people agree that the perfect marriage is to have absolute money, to have barrier-free communication, and to be sexually harmonious. But this is more based on ideals, and it is difficult to really have it in reality. For example, we can see in life that there is no money, but two couples can live happily; Some couples are rich, but they don't communicate, but they go home. That is, in the triangle of money, communication, and sex, as long as there are two marriages, it can be maintained, if you can have three things at the same time, it is perfect, if there is only one left, it is not far from divorce. When you understand that marriage is impossible, you have the insight and ability to understand yourself and judge others.
Investment: Investment is about liquidity, security, and yield. For example, if you want strong liquidity and high security, the yield will be lower; If you want strong liquidity and high returns, you have a big return. There are a few books with high security and high yields, so many people will be harvested by the pig killing plate, maybe they have a limited understanding of the investment impossible triangle, but I hope there will be no pig killing plate in the future.
Men: It is natural that a woman's ideal man will make a lot of money, be handsome and glamorous, and dedicated, and most of the male protagonists in romance ** are like this. For example, most of the *** are handsome and generally not short of money, and men who make money to support their families may have average appearance. So what a man chooses depends on what kind of life the woman wants to live.
Woman: There are three highest praises of the ideal goddess of men, high IQ, superior knowledge, beauty, and good personality. People with high IQ and good personality may have a relatively low score for beauty, because a person's energy is limited and he spends less time and energy on dressing up; Beautiful and good character, the road of life is not so brilliant, there are too many interferences, and the persistence of fixed mechanical knowledge is better; Kochi business and beautiful girl, personality is more individual, others can also tolerate it! But there are still many perfect goddesses in real society.
By using the impossible triangle to understand and accept all aspects of life, perhaps we can all have more kindness to life.