It has been said that the best shortcut to letting go of a person is to see each other again, because the rejection of the other person is more reliable than any method.
It is also said that the last thing you can do to let go of a person is to see each other again, because entanglement makes a person not know whether to continue or end the relationship.
No matter how long it has been since the breakup, wanting to see each other again will undoubtedly make the person who loves him so much that he can't extricate himself more unforgettable, and the person who hurt him at the beginning will be more confident when he sees her who is not having a good time.
Why don't you go to see your ex again?
At the beginning of the breakup, some people behaved very ruthlessly and said some particularly cruel things, they thought that they would have nothing to do with their ex in this life.
But after just a few weeks, after the breakup gradually calmed down, reason told him that he was a little nostalgic for his ex's feelings.
As long as someone asks to see each other again at this time, as long as someone is ready to move, they will hit it off.
People have desires, and during the breakup period, both men and women temporarily lack their respective partners, and they will accumulate very strong desires.
In order to **, men and women meet again, something happens that shouldn't happen, and some people mistakenly think that this is love back, but in fact, this is just a superficial desire.
After being satisfied, the person who does not love returns to the previous state.
Therefore, saying goodbye to your ex is equivalent to giving yourself to your ex one more time.
In the end, it is very likely that the two people who broke up will never be able to break off, and during this time, although the man and woman are not lovers, they may not be able to break off the relationship.
Compared with the pain of not seeing each other, seeing each other again, although it satisfies the concern for the other half for a short time, the effect caused later is much more painful than not seeing each other.
When someone says goodbye to his ex, he is not here to say goodbye, but he is desperately trying to redeem himself, desperately please the other party, and use his humility to win the sympathy of his old love.
This kind of meeting can only make him more and more unwilling after leaving, and he doesn't want to lose each other more and more, and finally he has been wandering in redemption, and he has never been able to let go.
Then, terrible pain took over his heart, and in the end he still wouldn't get the other party.
After a breakup, the scariest thing is to be entangled with someone, and the more you are entangled with him, the more difficult it will be for you to let go.
Excessive entanglement will make the other party particularly annoying, and moderate entanglement will make each other particularly painful.
If a person really can't let go of her ex, it will be difficult for her heart to accept others, even if one day, she meets someone who likes her very much, she doesn't want to open her heart to the fullest.
As a result, the predecessor and the current make her unable to choose, and even if the current one is very good to her, it cannot replace the position of the predecessor in her heart after all.
In the end, she can't get her ex and live up to her current one, and she will let the person who can't let go live in her own emotional barrier all the time.
When a person is excited to see her ex again after a breakup, it may disappoint her.
When we meet again, we may also experience a "second breakup".
When she redeems someone, and she can't do it with all her might, she is very desperate.
When she is in the process of redeeming a person, the redemption is excessive, that person will make the other party more tired, and in the end, too much entanglement will make a person hideous, and too much unwillingness will ruin a person's good impression in another person's heart.
In the end, the two people who broke up will never see each other again, and they will no longer have any good feelings, and even the little good feelings between the breakups will be redeemed and destroyed.
The predecessor is actually a time bomb, whoever can't let it go, whoever wants to redeem it, will probably have failed.
Don't try to redeem your ex with a particularly humble heart, and don't be looked down upon in front of your ex.
So, for those who can't let go, it's best not to see each other again.