If your predecessor can't let you go, there will be some performances that can be seen, but I also want to remind youIt's just that the ex can't let go, and whether he can get back together with you, there is no inevitable law in this, not that the ex can't let go of you, you must be reconciled with you, and it's not that the ex can't be reconciled if you let go.
The key is whether you have improved yourself and whether you can seize the opportunity in time.
So let's get straight to the point.
First, you can observe whether the other person sees your movements regularly;
Because there are a lot of apps that can see visitor records, or browsing records, if you find that your ex often comes to see your dynamics, it can mean that this is a signal that you haven't put down.
But don't think that this kind of signal can directly make you get back together, it's not so magical, it's just a simple criterionYou can only judge that the other party has emotions for you, not as ruthless as you seem to be.
I've also met some people who go directly to their ex and ask: Why do you keep coming to see me?If you ask this question, you will puncture the ex's careful thinking, and if your predecessor doesn't come to see it in the future, you will have one less judgment indicator.
Regarding the small action of watching your dynamics, my opinion to everyone is this, this indicator is better to have, because most of the predecessors will look back, and it can even be regarded as a basic operation.
But if you don't have this indicator after you break up, don't be discouraged and judge it according to other combinations, because one indicator can't determine everything.
Second, see if the other person is willing to reply to your message
If you find that the other party is very ruthless and his attitude is very decisive, but every time you send a message to him, you have to understand that if he is really as ruthless as he says, then you don't have to reply to your message at all, wouldn't it be more consistent to delete the block directly.
So at this time, you can at least judge a littleThat's ittaThere must still be hesitation in their hearts, and this hesitation does not mean that they want to get back together, but at least they have the idea of not wanting to do it.
If the mouth is very ruthless, but if the reply content is not particularly ruthless, for example, it is a normal reply, or it seems to be saying cruel words, but it is actually a manifestation of emotions, you must know that he is not so ruthless as he wants to do.
But if the content of the reply is particularly cold, or simply does not reply. At this time, the other party may really just rely on the last bit of concern to maintain a little contact with you. At this time, don't push too hard.
In short, if the other party is willing to reply to your message, there is a certain probability that they have not put you down.
The third, whether to keep your ***
This can be combined with the second point to say that the principle is similarThe attitude is ruthless, but the things he does are not very ruthless.
In fact, you can also understand it this way, that is, any way the other party keeps you, deep down in his heart, he vaguely wants to leave a way back for himself, or he also feels that there is no need to do so much between you, if one day the two of them can really calm down, it is not impossible to have a long talk.
But everyone should pay attentionKeeping *** is not for you to harass each other,If you harass you, you will eliminate the last thought of the ta, and you will want to redeem it, which will obviously increase the difficulty.
Finally, I will say two words briefly, that is, according to the behavior of the ex to judge whether the ex has let go, I have listed so many items, all of which are possible that the other party has not put down, but it is really necessary to judge clearly, and you need to look at it comprehensively to judge more accurately, so as not to make your recovery action wrong.
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