With the development of society and the improvement of people's living standards, marriage has become an important part of people's lives. However, in marriage, cold violence has become a common phenomenon for various reasons. So, does a cold and violent marriage still need to be maintained?
First, we need to be clear about what cold violence is. Cold violence is an act of deliberately making the other person feel uneasy and lonely through coldness, contempt, permissiveness, and alienation. In marriage, cold violence often manifests itself in indifference, indifference, verbal threats, and unwarranted criticism towards the partner. This kind of behavior will not only cause great damage to the feelings of the couple, but also have a negative impact on the growth of the family and children.
Second, we need to analyze the causes of cold violence. The occurrence of cold violence is often related to communication problems, personality differences, life pressure, and personal psychological problems between husband and wife. If these problems are not resolved in time, they will gradually evolve into contradictions and conflicts between husband and wife, and eventually lead to the emergence of cold violence.
Next, we need to solve the problem of cold violence. First of all, couples need to establish a good communication mechanism, learn to listen and understand each other's thoughts and feelings, and enhance mutual understanding and trust. Secondly, both husband and wife need to enhance their psychological quality, learn to control their emotions and maintain a good attitude, and avoid cold violence due to the moment. In addition, both husband and wife can also seek professional psychological counseling and ** to help solve personal psychological problems and improve the relationship between husband and wife.
Finally, we need to go back to the original question: Is a cold-violent marriage still needed? There is no standard answer to this question as every couple's situation is different. However, if both husband and wife can face up to the problem, actively communicate, and work together, I believe that most of the problems of cold violence can be solved. But if the couple no longer has an emotional foundation and cannot improve their relationship together, then separating is also a wise choice. Whichever way you choose, you should make your decision based on respect for each other to protect your interests and well-being to the fullest.
In short, whether a cold and violent marriage needs to be maintained depends on the attitude and efforts of both spouses. If both sides can face up to the problem, actively communicate and work together, I believe that most of the problems of cold violence can be resolved. But if the relationship cannot be improved, separating is also a wise choice. Whichever way you choose, you should make your decision with respect for each other.