Every year during the Chinese New Year, migrant workers return home with a fiery heart, hoping to reunite with their families. However, some people are facing marital troubles and conflicts at this time when they should be happy and reunited. In the days of working outside, hardship is the norm, and earning money is the goal. They wander all year round, and the only thought in their hearts is to make their families more comfortable. However, real life kept pouring cold water on them, and on the way home, they found cracks in their marriage. The lonely life overwhelms their marriages and is full of strife. Some people can only choose to live separately in order to live, and the understanding and support of the wife is crucial for the husband. But in reality, some people ignore each other's efforts and are bent on the outside world's ** and having fun. The example of Guangdong is deeply touching. The eldest brother had been working outside for many years, and it was hard to get home for the Chinese New Year, only to find that his wife had long since left and abandoned their children. The sudden blow made him feel helpless and hopeless, and he lay on the ground crying in agony, while the child was quietly by his side. He couldn't accept this cruel reality, and the depression and grievances in his heart were indescribable. What happened to this eldest brother has attracted the curiosity and attention of many people, some people just watch the excitement, and some people are pity. No matter how comforting and supportive they were, they couldn't really understand the pain in his heart. The eldest brother's marriage was shattered, and he fell into endless grief and helplessness. He realized that no amount of money could make up for the lack of marriage and family. In the past, he always believed that he worked hard to earn money so that his family could live a good life, and at the same time, he also hoped that his wife would understand his efforts and face difficulties together. However, he did not expect that his wife would not be able to bear the loneliness and betray their marriage, even the children of his own life. In the face of such a betrayal, his heart was full of anger and chagrin, and at the same time he had nothing to do but hold the child and cry in pain. What that sister-in-law did was truly outrageous, she betrayed her marriage and abandoned her family. However, if you think about it carefully, their marriage has long had problems, but this man has been focusing on work and neglecting the management of family feelings. Maybe his wife had sent a distress signal, but he didn't think it was a joke and didn't seize the opportunity to repair the relationship. Marriage is not a simple pile-up, it requires both husband and wife to care for and manage. As the saying goes: "If the small hole is not filled, the big hole suffers." "Only if the husband and wife can identify the problem and solve it in time can avoid future regrets.
Marriage is an edifice that needs to be cared for by husband and wife. In this edifice, small contradictions and small problems are like bacteria under a microscope, and if they are ignored, they will grow. However, many couples neglect the management of their marriage in the stressful and busy life, which eventually leads to the breakdown of the marriage. Looking back, maybe when the two met, they got along day and night, confiding in each other. However, when the trivialities and pressures of life pile up, their love and affection may no longer be the most important. Husbands and wives began to become estranged, and their hearts became more and more distant from each other. Just like that eldest brother, he struggled for most of his life to make a living, but he ignored the preciousness of marriage. He ignored his wife's emotional needs, did not care about her loneliness and loneliness in her heart, and did not give her enough companionship and care. In his eyes, only making money can solve all problems, but he ignores the warmth and emotional support in marriage. He thought that his struggles would bring happiness and stability to his family, but he ignored that his wife also needed emotional nourishment and attention. Marriage is so fragile and precious, it requires both parties to run together, share the commitment, and communicate. Husbands and wives should always maintain communication and understanding with each other, and resolve differences and conflicts in a timely manner. Everything should be considered from the other person's point of view, empathy, and jointly find a solution to the problem. The management of marriage requires the joint efforts and efforts of husband and wife, and only in this way can the marriage be long and happy.
Through the experience of this eldest brother, we can see the fragility and preciousness of marriage. Marriage is not just a formal union, but also an emotional balance and support. In modern society, people's life is getting faster and faster, and the pressure of work is increasing, and it is easy to ignore the warmth and care of family. However, it is only when we give a lot and get betrayal and breakdown that we realize the value of marriage. Therefore, in marriage, we cannot just blindly pursue material satisfaction and ignore the warmth and emotional support of the family. We need to maintain communication and understanding at all times, and identify and solve problems in a timely manner. For men, we need to understand more about the loneliness and loneliness of our wives and give her enough companionship and care. For women, we need to cherish marriage more, not to give up the family easily, not to betray the marriage easily. The management of marriage requires us to work together to make it long and happy. Looking back and reflecting, let us cherish the happiness in front of us more, manage the marriage with a firmer heart, and create a better future together.