If you are forcibly kissed by a man, it is an act that violates your boundaries and dignity. When faced with this situation, here are some suggestions to deal with and deal with:
One. Deal with it now:
1.Make sure you're safe: If the other person continues to harass you, try to keep your distance and avoid further contact with them. If you feel you are in danger, leave immediately or seek help from others to keep yourself safe.
2.Be clear about your feelings: If you feel the need to do so, try to be clear about your feelings in words or actions. Don't give the other person the impression that you acquiesce or accept the behavior.
3.Seek support: Find a trusted friend, family member, or professional to talk to about your feelings and experiences. They can provide emotional support and help you develop a plan of action for your next steps.
4.Avoid self-blame: Remember, it's not your fault that this happens. Don't blame yourself and let yourself realize that you didn't do anything wrong.
Two. Follow-up Processing:
1.Make a decision: Consider the outcome you want and how to deal with it. You can choose not to have any connection with this man anymore. If you don't want to have any more contact with this man, resolutely keep your distance and avoid being alone with him.
2.Don't be afraid to speak up: If you're not going to cut it all in, you can choose to make your feelings clear in person with this man or through other means. Tell him that you don't like his behavior and ask him to respect your boundaries.
4.Police and legal aid: If the man continues to harass or threaten you, you may want to consider calling the police and getting support and protection at the legal level.
5.Seek psychological support: Experiencing an event like this can have a negative impact on your mental health. Seek the help of a professional counsellor to help you deal with and overcome the trauma of this experience.
Whatever you choose to do, remember that protecting your rights and safety is paramount.