The countryside is a place where the rhythm of life is quiet and peaceful, but with the continuous development of the times, some new problems have begun to appear in the countryside. The problems of rats, flies and other pests that the people were most worried about have gradually been alleviated, but now there are "four major pests", which have brought new troubles to the villagers. Mobile phones, bride prices, comparisons, and gambling have permeated all aspects of rural life, making people feel helpless. This article will conduct an in-depth analysis and ** of the "four major harmful essences" reproduced in rural areas.
In modern society, mobile phones have become one of the indispensable tools in people's lives. Young and old, the use of mobile phones has permeated every aspect of life. Especially in rural areas, many people have a soft spot for mobile phones and spend almost all day staring at their phone screens. Some are for online classes, some are to pass the time to play games, and some are even addicted to the virtual world and are unwilling to withdraw from their mobile phones. This obsession with mobile phones not only affects personal learning and work, but also hinders the healthy growth of children to a certain extent.
The mobile phone in modern society is not only a convenient tool, but also a double-edged sword. People should put the role of mobile phones in perspective, give full play to their positive functions, and avoid becoming addicted to the virtual world. Parents should also guide their children to use mobile phones correctly, arrange their study and entertainment time reasonably, and make mobile phones a help rather than a burden.
Marriage in rural areas usually requires a ceremony, and the most troublesome of them is the bride price. With the change of the times, the bride price is no longer a simple dowry, but has become a heavy financial burden. The amount of bride price continues to rise every year, which puts many families under pressure. Throughout the process, both families have had to spend a lot of money to meet each other's demands, and some have even had to take on excess debts. In addition to the basic gold and silver jewelry, the man's bride price also requires the purchase of a garage, etc., and these expenses are really a lot of money for ordinary rural families.
The issue of bride price highlights the problem of marriage customs in rural areas, and the atmosphere of excessive comparison makes people sigh. Rural families should look at the meaning of the wedding rationally, minimize the phenomenon of showing off and comparison, and let the wedding return to true love and family.
Comparison is a common phenomenon among rural people. Although many rural people have not received much education, they have a special complex for comparison. Whether it is building a house, buying a car or holding a red and white celebration, rural people always hope to be better and more luxurious than others, and the pomp and circumstance are getting bigger and bigger. This kind of comparison not only burdens the family, but also makes people lose themselves in the process of comparison.
Comparison can certainly bring temporary vanity satisfaction, but in the long run, it will inevitably make people fall into a quagmire. Rural people should be soberly aware that comparison will only lead them into economic difficulties and psychological entanglements. The most important thing is to do what you can, not to be greedy for vanity, and to live your life well.
In rural areas, gambling is also a social phenomenon that cannot be ignored. Many families would get together to play mahjong and fight landlords in their leisure time, which was originally a form of entertainment. However, some people tend to get emotional when they gamble, place bigger and bigger bets, and even gamble on their family savings. Minor cases may lead to financial hardship, and in severe cases, family breakdown, marriage breakdown, and even family breakdown.
Gambling is a serious social problem that not only destroys family relationships but also harms the physical and mental health of individuals. Rural families should be vigilant against the negative effects of gambling, reverse misconceptions, and put life in perspective.
The reappearance of the "four major harmful spirits" in rural areas, such as mobile phones, bride prices, comparisons, and gambling, has undoubtedly brought a lot of trouble to rural families. In the face of these problems, we need to be rational and not blindly fall into them. A mobile phone is a tool and should be used correctly; The bride price is a custom and should be viewed reasonably; Comparison is a state of mind, which should be done in moderation; Gambling is a cancer and should be kept away. Only by correcting one's mentality and facing these problems rationally can we make rural life more harmonious and beautiful. It is hoped that rural families can abandon the "four harmful spirits" and live a happy and healthy life.