In a beautiful village in Hunan, a groom full of joy led the wedding team, beating gongs and drums all the way, happily going to marry the bride.
When the procession reached the entrance of the bride's village, he saw that the bride's relatives and friends were already waiting there.
The other party set up a long table and stool, which was lined with dense beers, blocking his way, and the beer glass was arranged in a heart shape on the ground.
The groom instantly understood that this was the legendary "barricade wine".
Faced with this sudden scene, the groom, after pondering for a moment, could not accept the trickery of this traditional custom, and turned away.
The groom's move sparked heated discussions among netizens, with some netizens saying: "There are vices in many places that tease the groom, and now it is becoming more and more excessive, such a custom is really bad and should be canceled." ”
It seems that the groom has the same personality as me, and he is too serious about everything, which is very unsociable. ”
Some people will have an accident if they drink too much, play and play, make trouble, don't joke about your body! ”
Seriously, marrying is a happy event, and sometimes some bad customs really make a good happy event unpleasant. Some people really can't drink, they will drink and have an accident, in your eyes they think it's fun, but in the eyes of others they feel very uncomfortable! ”
On this day that should be full of festivities, the groom turned away because of the traditional custom of "barricade wine", which could not help but sigh.
"Barricade wine" is a custom in weddings in many parts of our country, and if the newlyweds want to enter the bride's house, they must first pass the test of the wine table.
The longer the wine table, the happier the couple's life will be.
However, this custom has sparked controversy in modern society.
On the one hand, it is considered to be a respect and inheritance of tradition, and on the other hand, there are also people who believe that it is disrespectful to newcomers or even a vice.
To some extent, "barricade wine" is the epitome of the clash between traditional and modern concepts.
Traditionally, weddings are seen as a key milestone in a new life, and this milestone is often accompanied by a series of symbolic ceremonies, such as "barricade wine".
However, in the modern concept, the wedding is seen as a personal choice for the couple, who have more autonomy to decide the form of their wedding.
The conflict between these two concepts has caused the traditional custom of "barricade wine" to cause different reactions among newcomers.
It also makes us think about how to respect tradition while balancing the individual's right to choose and dignity.
With the development of the times, we need to reflect on and adjust some outdated customs, in order to create a more civilized, tolerant and healthy marriage atmosphere.
Try to change the custom of "barricade wine".
For example, the amount of alcohol can be appropriately reduced, and it is enough to drink one or two glasses to express your heart, so as not to cause unnecessary physical harm to the newcomer.
At the same time, this custom can also be combined with modern elements, such as replacing wine with flowers and balloons, to create a more enthusiastic atmosphere for the arrival of the couple.
In this way, the symbolic meaning of the tradition is retained, and the feelings of the newcomers are taken into account, and the organic combination of tradition and modernity is realized.
Perhaps, with the development of the times, more and more weddings will abandon these old customs, and there will be more civilized and healthy wedding forms in the future.